Sounds more like an earlylife crisis: college edition. Wouldn’t the college version of a midlife crisis be happening to sophomores or juniors? I know mine did.
Though it could be midlife for Danny, given comic time, I have some doubts on him ever getting to be a senior.
What you’re describing there sounds more like regular separation anxiety or adaptation issues.
The quarter-life crisis traditionally is when you _are_ an adult by every metric, generally a couple of years after you enter the job market, and you become disillusioned with your old expectations of adulthood and your vision for your own life.
Most of it is social and environmental, but there could also be a biological component since 25-ish is when our brains are finally fully matured and life-altering decisions we made as teens might not look so hot anymore.
“So, uh. What’s the optics on an actual music major bringing ‘er ukelele-slingin’ computer science major boyfriend to to practice room? Does it cancel out, or…”
I mean, if she’s practicing her music along to his ukulele, that should if anything be good? keeps a ukulele guy from taking a booking a music major needs and still means he gets practice and stays out of sayid’s way
Well, sure, but I’ve brought some. This one’s an old favorite from childhood: https://youtu.be/YQIxKorzI4c
Take me home, country roads!
(Oh, gosh, I love how she forgets the lyrics in the final verse!)
Sorry, sorry… I know, not everyone likes country music, and her electoral politics were deeply problematic. Complicated legacy. Don’t listen if you don’t like it.
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You don’t have to apologise for anything- it’s a publicly available, very well-known song, which exists quite independent of any political or indeed other considerations. You weren’t putting it forward as a piece of music created by a paragon of human virtue, just innocently sharing something with, evidently, no ill-intention whatsoever, so you’re good. It’s depressing how people have to apologise for everything these days; can’t we just give each other the benefit of the doubt?
The Oracle
Talking about the “benefit of the doubt” is rich, coming from a person who routinely calls people trolls and misgenders them over simple misunderstandings. Lead by example, maybe.
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… do I know you? Because I don’t think you know me.
The Oracle
Yeah, cuz there’s just sooo many people with default Joe icons and hyphens for names around here. ? But whatever, play dumb all you like.
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“Oracle” is a really inapposite choice of sobriquet for you, pally, but… bored of you now, move along
Now I worry, Sal thinks Danny isn’t unique and quirky but a shallow copy-paste hipster with no real personality or self-confidence. None of which might be wrong, but he’s a sweet guy and watching the two them was my favorite part of this comic in its current iteration. I don’t want them to break up.
I don’t think Sal would ditch somebody she genuinely likes just because a stranger calls him basic. (If anything, she might feel for Danny getting put into a box… but mostly she just feels awkward, and it’s funny.)
I would be really sad if this turns into a conflict between the two of them, because they are sweet and just getting started. Also this is kind of an overblown issue – the college could easily resolve it by giving priority to people who are music majors or at least taking a music class. It’s not fair to blame Danny for it. So I hope you are right she just feels awkward.
God, I remember my first year of college. You couldn’t throw a stone without finding some white dude playing a ukulele in the dorms. I went to a community college a couple hours from IU, too.
When there’s people who need them for the education their tuition also pays for? Monsters is harsh but yeah, I can get why music majors would be annoyed with them.
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Ana Chronistic
so it’s Midlife Crisis: College Edition?
Bryy
That is college.
LiamKav
Nah. There’s at least one more midlife crisis to come after that. Sometimes two or three!
Taffy
Aren’t those usually reserved for people who led a charmed life and can’t handle change? I swear I read a thing someplace about that.
Roborat
My midlife crisis resulted in me joining the army reserve at age 36. Before I knew it, I was 60 and was forced to retire.
Some Ed
Sounds more like an earlylife crisis: college edition. Wouldn’t the college version of a midlife crisis be happening to sophomores or juniors? I know mine did.
Though it could be midlife for Danny, given comic time, I have some doubts on him ever getting to be a senior.
Mr. Random
That’s called a quarter-life crisis.
Right around the time when most people are in a new environment with freedom from parents and family.
But also semi-self responsibility.
Almost an adult, still a child.
Mopey
What you’re describing there sounds more like regular separation anxiety or adaptation issues.
The quarter-life crisis traditionally is when you _are_ an adult by every metric, generally a couple of years after you enter the job market, and you become disillusioned with your old expectations of adulthood and your vision for your own life.
Most of it is social and environmental, but there could also be a biological component since 25-ish is when our brains are finally fully matured and life-altering decisions we made as teens might not look so hot anymore.
Doctor_Who
Sal: Oh no, Ah forgot to tag which one’s mine!
(Sal walks back to find the hallway filled with identical ukulele dorks)
Sal: NOOOOO!
Golden Yak
Then again, if Ukulele weirdoes are your thing…
Inahc
It’s Raining Ukes? 🙂
True Survivor
Now I’m imagining the a bunch of Danny’s sitting on a conveyer at the airport, while Sal stands by confused trying to pick out the right one.
a/snow/mous/e
Where’s Waldan?
Some1
At the end of the comic Danny is going to show up to the final battle leading an army of them.
Doctor_Who
It’ll be that scene in The Good Place when all the Janets show up.
drs
Ukuleles will rule!
Jon S.
Ukeleles may rule.
Yet_One_More_Idiot
Ukeleles rule…kelele… xD
Renshear Blade
Win!!
Kelibath
“Wake up!” x10000
The hats discarded, ukeleles raised as clubs as they charge
The Wellerman
Seems like a rather niche demographic you’re describing for it to be that big a problem, Sayid. ?
You should really know better than to try to put one over Sal like that.
Doctor_Who
You say that, but you’re not the one who has to chase them out with a broom at the end of every shift.
GeekyWarrior
Wasn’t there a Patreon Comic that had something very similar?
ValdVin
Yep. That was Asma, Jennifer, and Ruth, in the lobby area.
GeekyWarrior
No involving the music rooms.
I found it!
https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-strip-june-12254472?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_fan
Jamie
Goddamn, Willis.
True Survivor
He does seem weirdly angry at what is likely a small group of people. Maybe they stole his sleeves to make more newsboy hats?
Tan
My heart of hearts kind of hopes that Danny somehow inspired some sort of weird following with his Good Egg vibes.
Rabbit
Honestly Sal’s established as wildely desirable
maybe this like a 4d chess move from Sayid to make her think Danny is lame to try to get an in with her. who knows.
Kelibath
Avatar checks out!
Xaeon
No, some of the other CS guys saw Danny and Sal doing duets and they have come to the conclusion that this is how you get hot girls.
zee
I mean like he said, they’re overbooking the music rooms so the actual music majors can’t use them. I’d be pretty pissed too
Cheshrin
“So, uh. What’s the optics on an actual music major bringing ‘er ukelele-slingin’ computer science major boyfriend to to practice room? Does it cancel out, or…”
Axel
I mean, if she’s practicing her music along to his ukulele, that should if anything be good? keeps a ukulele guy from taking a booking a music major needs and still means he gets practice and stays out of sayid’s way
Decidedly Orthogonal
Is Danny a CS major?
BBCC
Yes.
Diane
Yep.
https://www.dumbingofage.com/2010/comic/book-1/01-move-in-day/worry/
Kalirren
Music pedagogy is an important job skill. Music departments usually let their own students teach in their practice rooms.
temporalshrew
“We call ’em ‘Dannies,’ for short. Not sure where the name came from, though…”
Stephen Bierce
Be glad I’m not bringing out any Loretta Lynn.
Rognik
Bad timing on that reference.
Decidedly Orthogonal
Eh. It’s been a day. I didn’t give her majesty an hour, and I *liked* her.
Laura
Well, sure, but I’ve brought some. This one’s an old favorite from childhood:
https://youtu.be/YQIxKorzI4c
Take me home, country roads!
(Oh, gosh, I love how she forgets the lyrics in the final verse!)
Laura
Sorry, sorry… I know, not everyone likes country music, and her electoral politics were deeply problematic. Complicated legacy. Don’t listen if you don’t like it.
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You don’t have to apologise for anything- it’s a publicly available, very well-known song, which exists quite independent of any political or indeed other considerations. You weren’t putting it forward as a piece of music created by a paragon of human virtue, just innocently sharing something with, evidently, no ill-intention whatsoever, so you’re good. It’s depressing how people have to apologise for everything these days; can’t we just give each other the benefit of the doubt?
The Oracle
Talking about the “benefit of the doubt” is rich, coming from a person who routinely calls people trolls and misgenders them over simple misunderstandings. Lead by example, maybe.
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… do I know you? Because I don’t think you know me.
The Oracle
Yeah, cuz there’s just sooo many people with default Joe icons and hyphens for names around here. ? But whatever, play dumb all you like.
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“Oracle” is a really inapposite choice of sobriquet for you, pally, but… bored of you now, move along
The Wellerman
Would you like some tea to go with your sentence enhancers?
We got mint, chamomile, rose and chickweed.
True Survivor
Now I worry, Sal thinks Danny isn’t unique and quirky but a shallow copy-paste hipster with no real personality or self-confidence. None of which might be wrong, but he’s a sweet guy and watching the two them was my favorite part of this comic in its current iteration. I don’t want them to break up.
The Wellerman
Don’t worry, she’s really experienced at sniffing out bullshit.
Sayid’s probably just jealous or something.
DailyBrad
If she leaves this conversation thinking Danny is the hipster, that’s on her. Sayid’s being kind of a jackass.
Leorale
I don’t think Sal would ditch somebody she genuinely likes just because a stranger calls him basic. (If anything, she might feel for Danny getting put into a box… but mostly she just feels awkward, and it’s funny.)
The Wellerman
Yeah, that, and this is pretty hard to argue with:
https://www.dumbingofage.com/2022/comic/book-12/04-dont-stop-billie-ving/adorable/
Meagan
I would be really sad if this turns into a conflict between the two of them, because they are sweet and just getting started. Also this is kind of an overblown issue – the college could easily resolve it by giving priority to people who are music majors or at least taking a music class. It’s not fair to blame Danny for it. So I hope you are right she just feels awkward.
Pocky
it’d be funny if she forgot which room number she had; and just kept opening doors of near identically dressed dudes that all looked like Danny.
brute
and that just keeps happening, every night, for the remainder of the comic’s run
i wouldn’t even be mad
Suet
You see both, you’ve seen them all!
Maybe Sayid is the one who paid the wind to blow Danny’s hat away.
Plonker
Dun-dun-duuuhn…
Sal is now forced to completely re-evaluate her relationship with Dan, so what will the outcome be? Ditching him? Trying to change him?
Leorale
Remembering she dislikes trying to impress people, especially those who enjoy putting people into boxes?
They’ll be OK. : )
GholaHalleck
She’s gonna bang Danny in the room to taunt arms guy because he can hear them.
zee
What? No she’s not
The Oracle
How did you even come to that conclusion?
Jade
God, I remember my first year of college. You couldn’t throw a stone without finding some white dude playing a ukulele in the dorms. I went to a community college a couple hours from IU, too.
Meagan
Ukelele is the people’s instrument. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OZaR_4us6Ec
Jon
How dare these dweebs use the practice rooms their tuition pays for. What horrible monsters they must be.
True Survivor
Smash their Ukuleles! Hang them by the stings! Burn them with the tinder!
BBCC
When there’s people who need them for the education their tuition also pays for? Monsters is harsh but yeah, I can get why music majors would be annoyed with them.
Kimi
It might have more to do with whatever time everyone has free time. There’s probably a rush hour during certain times of the day.
marillius
Seems more like a practical failing of the school for not setting aside 2/3rds of the rooms for those with classes for music.