The way she was speaking, they’d both been well aware that Billie had to move out and calm things down in general. Ruth wouldn’t stress that again; it’d be redundant and there’s frankly no reason to remind anyone that, yes, she’s moving out.
Ruth essentially said here what needed to be clearly stated: things need to end because they’re inhibiting bigger things, we can’t keep acting like this is possible without sacrificing someone else’s or our safety. (It’s either that or have a relationship made entirely of hidden activity under a college campus for at most four years. Even between rooms, they would either get uncovered or it would put too much strain on their relationship. It’d be like doing long distance, only instead of long distance, it’d be in the same building and with enormous consequences.)
This is why Ruth is emotionally detaching herself from Billie and becoming cold: she can’t follow through with laying as low as she needs if she lets Billie keep emotionally distracting her.
If I’m mostly right, and they come apart, Ruth might find herself cascading into a depressive episode again, and might not make it out with the same luck she did before. D: PLEASE, RUTH, DON’T THINK THIS THROUGH.
CandidCanid
To add, when she said ‘quipping at each other like it’s not happening’, I’m almost certain that almost always refers to the ending of a relationship of some sort. Changing rooms? Not really a big deal whether you ignore or pay attention to it; not certain why she’d insist on being distant and stoic about it on both parties.
But losing someone? Ruth is already doing damage control, because she lost her parents, who aside from Howie, are the only family she had, and she had to deal with that adjustment before too. In her mind, she knows she has to lose Billie, who has give her the closest thing to love in a long, long time. She knows dealing with her feelings about this right now or being exposed to Billie’s emotions will only make it harder for both of them.
Tabitha Desanto
If she wanted to end her relationship she would of said ‘This relationship is over’ instead she said “this arrangement”, I am taking that as living arrangements.
Also basing this off 6 comics ago where she said she does not want her to go that she NEEDS her.
Airyu
But I don’t think either of them have referred to their relationship as… well, a “relationship”. Ruth called it a “suicide pact” before – that sounds more like an “arrangement” than a “relationship” to me.
CandidCanid
The issue with that is, as I already stated, it was already clear to both of them that the living situation had to change. There wasn’t any reason for Ruth to repeat it as an excuse for Billie to stop acting familiar to her.
Dana
I know it’s a small point, but “at most four years” translates to “almost certainly two semesters/three quarters. That at least sounds possible to do even if it isn’t, and it’s the maximum in universe run of the comic, at least by DYW’s stated intentions.
CandidCanid
It’s possible, but it’s not at all ideal. In the timeline, these two have hardly been together for very many days and their relationship is already under enough threat and strain to start fraying the threads.
Captain Button
It’s either that or have a relationship made entirely of hidden activity under a college campus for at most four years.
Now I picture Billie venturing into the steam tunnels for an illicit tryst with a Gollum-like Ruth.
… I think you mean “depth and emotion.” Ennui is another word for boredom, which is generally not the emotion that a blackmail-induced breakup inspires.
Next night: Billie stands outside Ruth’s window holding a stereo over her head. Unfortunately, she got some wires crossed while looking for a Canadian song Ruth would appreciate online, and so the stereo is playing this.
You magnificent bastard. Also, I am now picturing Ruth drawn as a South Park Canadian while everyone else remains drawn normally, and no one can quite put their finger on why Ruth seems different…
We’re following the daily lives of a dozen different characters, who are broken up into groups that don’t constantly interact, and we only see about 20 seconds of comic time play out per real time day. Some events that serially play for us may be happening simultaneously from the characters’ perspective. For all we know Billie and Ruth’s fight started while Joyce was packing for her weekend at home.
Relationships seem to develop quickly, but they are college students… Overall the pace isn’t that unbelievable.
The karmic consequences being that the one legitimately bad person in the caste at least realizes how much she’s been fucking up her job, and two people in an abusive relationship that’s obviously terrible for both of them are breaking up…
… wait, are we saying that the good father thing is the bad end of the karma scale?
The “one legitimately bad person in the cast”? I’m curious who you’re limiting the cast to, to make that claim.
Ruth certainly has problems and shouldn’t be in her job, no denying that.
I don’t however think that the relationship is abusive or terrible for either of them. It’s just not enough to fix their actual problems. Ruth’s behavior before the relationship actually started was abusive, no argument there, but it has changed since.
ChrisHerself
Abusive/terrible, maybe. Codependent, definitely. For better or for worse Ruth is stopping the cycle and actually giving them a chance at something healthier. Even if spite/common enemy is what gets them there.
241 thoughts on “Quipping”
Ana Chronistic
honeymoon’s over =(
Ana Chronistic
wow, good thing I didn’t go with the “Miss America” comment I was gonna go with, alt-text
Jay Eff
I was gonna do a “Miss America” comment, too!
The alt-text knows how to beat us to the punch.
Airyu
I always get the “here I come Mr. Fairy Universe” from fairly odd parents stuck in my head when I see Miss America / Miss Universe references.
Coru
I always think of “Biggest Douche in the Universe” courtesy of South Park….
Psychotic Mantis
A curious development.
It inspires in me great…something.
I ‘unno.
BagFaceMan
It fills you with determination?
Androiddreams
BagFaceMan! Stay De-temmied!
honestly with the history of these two and promises I doubt there’ll be even a couple of panels before drunken wubba lubba dub dub.
Psychotic Mantis
I’m not so sure. Ruth seems a LOT more determined to actually keep this particular promise than usual.
Airyu
nooo ruth don’t leave the relationship! stay alive please
Tabitha Desanto
I think she is just kicking her out of the room not the relationship.
Airyu
I hope so. I interpretted “arrangement” to mean relationship, but I hope I’m wrong.
CandidCanid
The way she was speaking, they’d both been well aware that Billie had to move out and calm things down in general. Ruth wouldn’t stress that again; it’d be redundant and there’s frankly no reason to remind anyone that, yes, she’s moving out.
Ruth essentially said here what needed to be clearly stated: things need to end because they’re inhibiting bigger things, we can’t keep acting like this is possible without sacrificing someone else’s or our safety. (It’s either that or have a relationship made entirely of hidden activity under a college campus for at most four years. Even between rooms, they would either get uncovered or it would put too much strain on their relationship. It’d be like doing long distance, only instead of long distance, it’d be in the same building and with enormous consequences.)
This is why Ruth is emotionally detaching herself from Billie and becoming cold: she can’t follow through with laying as low as she needs if she lets Billie keep emotionally distracting her.
If I’m mostly right, and they come apart, Ruth might find herself cascading into a depressive episode again, and might not make it out with the same luck she did before. D: PLEASE, RUTH, DON’T THINK THIS THROUGH.
CandidCanid
To add, when she said ‘quipping at each other like it’s not happening’, I’m almost certain that almost always refers to the ending of a relationship of some sort. Changing rooms? Not really a big deal whether you ignore or pay attention to it; not certain why she’d insist on being distant and stoic about it on both parties.
But losing someone? Ruth is already doing damage control, because she lost her parents, who aside from Howie, are the only family she had, and she had to deal with that adjustment before too. In her mind, she knows she has to lose Billie, who has give her the closest thing to love in a long, long time. She knows dealing with her feelings about this right now or being exposed to Billie’s emotions will only make it harder for both of them.
Tabitha Desanto
If she wanted to end her relationship she would of said ‘This relationship is over’ instead she said “this arrangement”, I am taking that as living arrangements.
Also basing this off 6 comics ago where she said she does not want her to go that she NEEDS her.
Airyu
But I don’t think either of them have referred to their relationship as… well, a “relationship”. Ruth called it a “suicide pact” before – that sounds more like an “arrangement” than a “relationship” to me.
CandidCanid
The issue with that is, as I already stated, it was already clear to both of them that the living situation had to change. There wasn’t any reason for Ruth to repeat it as an excuse for Billie to stop acting familiar to her.
Dana
I know it’s a small point, but “at most four years” translates to “almost certainly two semesters/three quarters. That at least sounds possible to do even if it isn’t, and it’s the maximum in universe run of the comic, at least by DYW’s stated intentions.
CandidCanid
It’s possible, but it’s not at all ideal. In the timeline, these two have hardly been together for very many days and their relationship is already under enough threat and strain to start fraying the threads.
Captain Button
It’s either that or have a relationship made entirely of hidden activity under a college campus for at most four years.
Now I picture Billie venturing into the steam tunnels for an illicit tryst with a Gollum-like Ruth.
CandidCanid
“Precious femurses”
Tayo
the sorrowful sound of a ship beginning to sink 🙁
Yet_One_More_Idiot
We can still save this ship! There’s still time!
*begins frantically plugging up holes with any debris lying around*
Captain Button
Sunk by Iceberg Mary.
Betty Anne
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v373/cliodhnaglen/tumblr_mdxdlnreii1rlhnibo1_400_zpsp0x0flmm.gif
ChrisHerself
IT’S NOT HAPPENING
http://i1101.photobucket.com/albums/g427/acw_world/Gifs/PiratesOfTheCaribbean03_zpsebd8251f.gif
Mada
Careful Billie, wishing for people to go back to their “old ways” isn’t always the best 🙁
AnvilPro
We still have the ponytail. We still have hope.
Plasma Mongoose
Ponytail is Life
DarkVeghetta
Ponytail is Love.
ChrisHerself
LoveTail is Pony.
miados
that look of billies at the end hurts emotionally speaking.
Carriethedragon
As opposed to physical harm, which is always a possibility when interacting with Ruth and Billie.
Disloyal Subject
Or either one of them, really. Though it’s probably likelier with Ruth.
DSL
She’ll take your emotional femurs.
CandidCanid
If looks could kill, I’d be sobbing.
oh wait
Tabitha Desanto
Aww sad Billie is sad
Doctor_Who
Billie’s gotta lotta snark, this could take a while.
Mr. Mendo
This is a heavy moment, full of depth and ennui!
pjeseb
… I think you mean “depth and emotion.” Ennui is another word for boredom, which is generally not the emotion that a blackmail-induced breakup inspires.
trlkly
It’s not just boredom. It’s a listlessness, a dissatisfaction with things staying the same.
I mean, you’re still right that it’s the wrong word, but I don’t want anyone thinking that being bored in class is ennui.
David Herbert
There it is… Miss Universe…
There it is… looking weird…
– Zapp Brannigan.
Rowen Morland
If Billie is clever she’ll be able to pursue Ruth in some other less obvious way.
Doctor_Who
Next night: Billie stands outside Ruth’s window holding a stereo over her head. Unfortunately, she got some wires crossed while looking for a Canadian song Ruth would appreciate online, and so the stereo is playing this.
Rukduk
You magnificent bastard. Also, I am now picturing Ruth drawn as a South Park Canadian while everyone else remains drawn normally, and no one can quite put their finger on why Ruth seems different…
Disloyal Subject
I
What
Why does this exist
Doctor_Who
The answer to both questions is “South Park”.
inqntrol
South Park: Making fun of every aspects of our societies since 1997.
Betty Anne
Somehow…somehow, deep down…I knew what that link was going to be. And I clicked it anyway. ^^; Oh, South Park, never change. XDD
Random832
I expected Justin Bieber.
Dean
All Billie needs to do is apply to move to a different floor. She can complain that Mary is creating a hostile living environment, that should do it.
Cephalo the Pod
Wait, is…is this actually happening? Are they breaking up?
Tabitha Desanto
Nah Billie just can not live in the room anymore.
Carriethedragon
Y’know, it’s kind of unclear. Also, they got together in The Whiteboard Dingdong Bandit… so according to this http://walkypedia.wikia.com/wiki/Dumbing_of_Age_Timeline they’ve been together for barely over a week.
Bammy
Wait? We’re barely a month in? You have got to be joking, wiki.
John
The sexy lesbian suicide pact was Wednesday of Week Four. Today is Friday of Week Five.
I keep a more detailed timeline of events than the wiki has, which is linked under my name (except when that links to the F-bomb count instead).
Carriethedragon
Niiiiiiiiiiice.
DarkVeghetta
I like your style – giving female names to all of your network’s servers has a certain panache to it.
DarkVeghetta
PS: 415 MB civax is adorable! ^_^
Captain Button
So Ruth is just trying to duck out for getting Billie a 10-day Anniversary present?
Ctrl+C D@
It’s just been a month
This is getting to Marvel levels of bullshit.
Needfuldoer
We’re following the daily lives of a dozen different characters, who are broken up into groups that don’t constantly interact, and we only see about 20 seconds of comic time play out per real time day. Some events that serially play for us may be happening simultaneously from the characters’ perspective. For all we know Billie and Ruth’s fight started while Joyce was packing for her weekend at home.
Relationships seem to develop quickly, but they are college students… Overall the pace isn’t that unbelievable.
BenRG
Specifically, ‘they‘ aren’t doing anything. Ruth is insisting that Billie end it.
AeromechanicalAce
And the other shoe drops. I knew Joyce’s dad being not-horrible would carry some sort of Karmic consequences.
gkheyf
in this universe, karma is when bad things happen to good people.
and on the other end of the spectrum…mary
JonasofAtlantis
The karmic consequences being that the one legitimately bad person in the caste at least realizes how much she’s been fucking up her job, and two people in an abusive relationship that’s obviously terrible for both of them are breaking up…
… wait, are we saying that the good father thing is the bad end of the karma scale?
thejeff
The “one legitimately bad person in the cast”? I’m curious who you’re limiting the cast to, to make that claim.
Ruth certainly has problems and shouldn’t be in her job, no denying that.
I don’t however think that the relationship is abusive or terrible for either of them. It’s just not enough to fix their actual problems. Ruth’s behavior before the relationship actually started was abusive, no argument there, but it has changed since.
ChrisHerself
Abusive/terrible, maybe. Codependent, definitely. For better or for worse Ruth is stopping the cycle and actually giving them a chance at something healthier. Even if spite/common enemy is what gets them there.
Skizz
Needs more snark
-Sentinel-
:/
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