Mike wished he could have died like he lived… fucking your mom for a nickel. Probably crushed by her.
Andy
The way your mom fucks, he would’ve died of boredom, which would’ve pissed him off since he can’t demand the nickel back after he’s dead.
Doctor_Who
That’s the actual cause of his coma. He met her on the ambulance on the way to the hospital, and medically speaking “mid-coitus with your mom” and “comatose” are indistinguishable.
Still a shitty thing to do IMO, I for one don’t want to see weeks of strips involving Walky going ‘SO ANYWAYS My ROOMATE IS DEAD, SO I guess I get a pass eh?”
BigDogLittleCat
Oh lord, I hope not.
Reaver
He’s done it twice so far, not looking forward to a lovely bunch of Walky being asked to do a thing/discuss a thing “Yeah well my roommate died, so I think you should hand over that last slice of pizza”/ “My roommate died so I guess that means I pass all my finals right?”
Ugh
Wereg
I think you might be overreacting a bit given what we’ve seen. This could just be a short-term thing.
That being said, I share your dislike for Walky. He had like five entire strips of being likeable and now we’re back to this.
Amias
In Reaver’s defense, “short term” could be months worth of strips.
Needfuldoer
From now on Walky only wears t-shirts that say “MY OLD ROOMMATE DIED AND ALL I GOT WAS THIS LOUSY T-SHIRT”.
katosen27
Never said it wasn’t, but it’s a traumatic thing that Walky went through. Can’t imagine he’d come out unscathed, and if this is how he is going to address it, then that’s how it is.
Guaranteed someone is going to call him out on it, eventually.
Jamie
Yeah, let’s go back to Becky being unnecessarily antagonistic to Dorothy.
Reaver
BUT I DON’T LIKE THAT OPTION EITHER DX
Diner Kinetic
NGL I like both- ideally happening at the same time in the same room, because social cringe comedy with a *touch* of jerkass tendencies is what I live for- We need our mike vibes from somewhere
Lys
I love both because they’re the kind of humour I’m all in.
Becky fully knows Dorothy only means her well, and Walky fully knows how flippant and dark it is for him to say that. They’re just both too detached to care about impressions more than they care about this… narrative? keyfabe? run-on joke?
At any rate I’m fairly certain they could and would stop if anybody asked them (not without effort but they would) but right now they’re crafting something out of their situations.
I don’t know if it’s the generation, the trauma, the queer influences, or a mix of all three but that’s exactly what I’m into. They don’t mean any harm, can be expected to stop rather than risk harm in bad situations, but will otherwise make people mildly wince for the sheer heck of it.
Amias
Listen, I love Becky. I do. But Dorothy has asked her to drop the nemesis act several times. It would have to be someone else – probably Joyce or Dina – telling her to knock it off.
katosen27
The Dorothy antagonism is definitely more cringy than this is. Both need to, and likely will be, in comic-time.
TemporalShrew
It’s called gallows *humor.*
I know Walky isn’t exactly a high-functioning human being, but I’m not sure that’s a good enough reason to assume he means what is acknowledged within the strip to be snark as being meant entirely literally. It’s not a genuine attempt at an excuse.
I lost half my family in the span of nine years. I joked around a lot, but NEVER MADE FUN OF THEM FOR DYING.
Zatar
Walky has no reason to be nice about the guy who was objectively a huge piece of shit to him to people who didn’t know him
Badgermole
Walky….. isn’t a real person. There’s no actual will or motivations behind the speech bubbles except those of the comic creator.
There are narrative choices being made here that don’t sit right with people for good reason.
Zatar
I have said elsewhere that I’m fine with people being mad at Willis for this.
The WonderRabbit
The death and the person who died also were not real.
One of Willis’ narrative strengths is his ability to write characters he doesn’t agree with but flesh out his stories as more true to life.
Including people having awful coping mechanisms.
thejeff
I’m not sure I’d even say these are awful coping mechanisms. It’s been months for him and both Booster and Lucy were far less close to Mike than he was, so it’s not like he’s messing with anyone emotionally attached.
Except us, because for us, we just found out a couple days ago that he’s really dead. So this can be rough for the audience on the meta-level, but it’s not something that Walky can be blamed for.
If Walky’s snarking about it to Amber or Ethan, then that’s a different story and should likely be seen as an awful coping mechanism for him. Unless they’ve set it up and are using a similar approach themselves.
Even then though, it should be seen as a failure to read the room and awkwardly trying to use humor to defuse the pain rather than deliberate provocation.
Autogatos
Agreed. Sometimes humor is what a person needs to cope. Yes it can be unhealthy if they’re using it to avoid confronting their feelings and just bottling them up inside instead. But also when you’ve dealt with or are dealing with something that is very painful and unsolvable, you don’t want to spend the rest of your life being depressed about it every second. So you make jokes.
It doesn’t mean you don’t care, it just means you do not want to be sad about this thing right at this moment (or do not want to talk about it at all right now) which is a very valid thing to feel. People who are experiencing trauma do not have to live every second of their life being sad about it.
As someone who has experienced permanent, life-changing trauma that involves often mourning the loss of what I once had, I would not have been able to get through this without the ability to sometimes joke about it, because the alternative would be curled up in bed feeling like life is pointless.
Autogatos
And was for whether Walky specifically does it in a healthy or unhealthy way, I think it’s maybe a bit of both? He clearly has some avoidance issues (see: his math grades, not wanting to have serious talks with his sister, etc). But I’d say it’s also sometimes a great benefit to him, like being able to not fall apart/panic while being kidnapped. Sometimes shoving your feelings down for later is harmful but sometimes it is helpful. These things aren’t always black and white.
Autogatos
I would add also (sorry, so many thoughts. I need an edit button lol): Walky doesn’t know Lucy that well and JUST met Booster. As someone who sometimes uses humor to cope I am WAY more likely to employ it when difficult topics get brought up with people I barely know or just met because I do not feel comfortable having a deep heart-to-heart about deeply personal painful things with someone I barely know in a casual social setting.
If a good friend (or someone in a polite context in which I’ve brought it up) asks, then sure I’ll talk about my feelings. But if It comes up with a neighbor or random relative or work peer then I’m much more likely to make a joke about it to ease the tension because I don’t want to make things awkward by suddenly turning this casual social experience into a dark depressing thing.
So yeah, Walky’s responses seem very very normal and familiar here to me and even though mike was literally my favorite character I do not at all read this as the author making fun of/making light of his death in an offensive way.
Dr T
I don’t recall Walky actually saying a bad thing about Mike, other than that he fell off a building and died. That’s more a statement of fact than anything.
Dark_T_Zeratul
I certainly don’t see him making fun of Mike’s death. Especially not here, where he’s simply acknowledging that he doesn’t want to talk about it, but also that he wants to move stuff even less.
Honestly can’t agree with this. Humor is almost entirely how I navigated my brother’s death for the first two or three years, including jokes directly about his death. Mike and Walky may not have been bosom buddies, but living with someone still changes a relationship and can make emotions complicated. You cope how you gotta cope.
The worst thing about living someone who leaves or dies is that you build so many memories in the space you shared.
Your brain is just ready for them to come in at any moment and start talking like they always do for some time.
CC
I can’t seem to find it now, but I remember reading something by someone with a recently-deceased (friend? family member?) that went something like, “I don’t visit the grave site. Why would I? He left behind hundreds of open graves, everywhere we’d been. Mostly I try not to fall into any. Some days I even succeed.”
I’m heavily paraphrasing, obviously, b/c if I could remember it accurately enough I’d have probably found it by now, but if anyone recognizes it, I’d love to see it again.
The only caveat to that is that you’ve got to be careful with your coping mechanisms when they run into someone even more affected – unlikely with your brother, but definitely a potential problem with Walky.
Not here, since Booster never met Mike and I don’t think Lucy did either, but he’d need to watch the snark around Amber or Ethan.
My dad died of lung cancer. One day, I was coughing and said “oh my god I’m dying” (as I always say when I cough), and my husband said, “you’re not dying.” I said, “Dad coughed a lot, and then -he- died.”
So yeah, dark humor is sometimes the way we cope with loss. If you think Walky’s a bad person for it, then I guess I am, too.
This isn’t about a death; but a few years ago I was diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer, and had to stay in the hospital overnight after the double mastectomy. I was feeling pretty fantastic and joking about it pretty heavily online (I was heavily dysphoric about them so getting them taken off was amazing, ngl).
A good friend was at work and laughing her ass off at her computer and her boss came over and asked her what was so funny and she replied “Oh my friend has cancer” and I’m actually pretty proud of getting that reaction (and her boss’s D: face) out of her ha ha (“Wait! No! She’s joking about it! She’s really funny!” XD)
They’re bad the first half of the year, then they start realizing they need to learn a whole bunch of statistics to make sense of their data and turn sad.
Yeah I read them as socially awkward and has maybe been painfully misinterpreted in the past. I have sympathy for anyone who employs this kind of awkward overly precise language because I am someone who does this out of anxiety and has been made fun of for it many times in the past because people think I’m being annoying/arrogant when really I’m just stressed tf out and trying not to be misunderstood.
The real question is whether they’re a Cousin Oliver or more of a Scrappy Doo.
(That said, most of the commenters seem to like them, so maybe they’ll turn out to be a Dawn Summers. But at the moment I’m getting some serious Scrappy Doo vibes.)
That or they (he, she, xi, ?) has had a lot of experience with these sorts of potential conversational landmines, and so deliberately takes steps to walk around them.
Everybody likes Booster, because they haven’t seen them being shitty yet. Everyone puts on their best face when they first meet people. We’ll get to know them eventually, give Willis time.
i hope reed means they fit in more with the peppy lucy floor squad
Jon Rich
That’s how I read it, yeah. He seems like a big ol’ ray of sunshine for the most part, and aside from Joyce and now Becky, that isn’t really how this hall acts.
Too mature and level headed, can read a room and be appropriate in conversation for one.
abysswatcher1993
Maybe that is what Reed Hall needs to change status quo. Not everyone is a jerk like our main cast, or maybe Booster has their own problems and doesn’t want people to know about them.
Reaver
Their problem is they’re probably about to become the MOST adultiest of adults amonst their peers.
424 thoughts on “Self-protective”
Ana Chronistic
so NOW it’ll be all strips about how Mike died, ok
clif
Well, Booster certainly has Mike’s ability to read a room.
MrBookBoy
Booster is Anti-Mike, they uses Mike’s powers for good.
Reaver
Your dead roommate’s not a joke you can toss around Walky, for fucks sake..
JetstreamGW
Hey now. You and I both know that’s how Mike would’ve wanted it.
Undrave
Mike wished he could have died like he lived… fucking your mom for a nickel. Probably crushed by her.
Andy
The way your mom fucks, he would’ve died of boredom, which would’ve pissed him off since he can’t demand the nickel back after he’s dead.
Doctor_Who
That’s the actual cause of his coma. He met her on the ambulance on the way to the hospital, and medically speaking “mid-coitus with your mom” and “comatose” are indistinguishable.
Deanatay
huh huh, nickelback
anonymousethatscurriesinthedarkness
[Donald Sutherland screaming intensifies]
JetstreamGW
;_;7
katosen27
Gallows humor is often the comedy of the emotionally strained.
Reaver
Still a shitty thing to do IMO, I for one don’t want to see weeks of strips involving Walky going ‘SO ANYWAYS My ROOMATE IS DEAD, SO I guess I get a pass eh?”
BigDogLittleCat
Oh lord, I hope not.
Reaver
He’s done it twice so far, not looking forward to a lovely bunch of Walky being asked to do a thing/discuss a thing “Yeah well my roommate died, so I think you should hand over that last slice of pizza”/ “My roommate died so I guess that means I pass all my finals right?”
Ugh
Wereg
I think you might be overreacting a bit given what we’ve seen. This could just be a short-term thing.
That being said, I share your dislike for Walky. He had like five entire strips of being likeable and now we’re back to this.
Amias
In Reaver’s defense, “short term” could be months worth of strips.
Needfuldoer
From now on Walky only wears t-shirts that say “MY OLD ROOMMATE DIED AND ALL I GOT WAS THIS LOUSY T-SHIRT”.
katosen27
Never said it wasn’t, but it’s a traumatic thing that Walky went through. Can’t imagine he’d come out unscathed, and if this is how he is going to address it, then that’s how it is.
Guaranteed someone is going to call him out on it, eventually.
Jamie
Yeah, let’s go back to Becky being unnecessarily antagonistic to Dorothy.
Reaver
BUT I DON’T LIKE THAT OPTION EITHER DX
Diner Kinetic
NGL I like both- ideally happening at the same time in the same room, because social cringe comedy with a *touch* of jerkass tendencies is what I live for- We need our mike vibes from somewhere
Lys
I love both because they’re the kind of humour I’m all in.
Becky fully knows Dorothy only means her well, and Walky fully knows how flippant and dark it is for him to say that. They’re just both too detached to care about impressions more than they care about this… narrative? keyfabe? run-on joke?
At any rate I’m fairly certain they could and would stop if anybody asked them (not without effort but they would) but right now they’re crafting something out of their situations.
I don’t know if it’s the generation, the trauma, the queer influences, or a mix of all three but that’s exactly what I’m into. They don’t mean any harm, can be expected to stop rather than risk harm in bad situations, but will otherwise make people mildly wince for the sheer heck of it.
Amias
Listen, I love Becky. I do. But Dorothy has asked her to drop the nemesis act several times. It would have to be someone else – probably Joyce or Dina – telling her to knock it off.
katosen27
The Dorothy antagonism is definitely more cringy than this is. Both need to, and likely will be, in comic-time.
TemporalShrew
It’s called gallows *humor.*
I know Walky isn’t exactly a high-functioning human being, but I’m not sure that’s a good enough reason to assume he means what is acknowledged within the strip to be snark as being meant entirely literally. It’s not a genuine attempt at an excuse.
Foxhack
I lost half my family in the span of nine years. I joked around a lot, but NEVER MADE FUN OF THEM FOR DYING.
Zatar
Walky has no reason to be nice about the guy who was objectively a huge piece of shit to him to people who didn’t know him
Badgermole
Walky….. isn’t a real person. There’s no actual will or motivations behind the speech bubbles except those of the comic creator.
There are narrative choices being made here that don’t sit right with people for good reason.
Zatar
I have said elsewhere that I’m fine with people being mad at Willis for this.
The WonderRabbit
The death and the person who died also were not real.
One of Willis’ narrative strengths is his ability to write characters he doesn’t agree with but flesh out his stories as more true to life.
Including people having awful coping mechanisms.
thejeff
I’m not sure I’d even say these are awful coping mechanisms. It’s been months for him and both Booster and Lucy were far less close to Mike than he was, so it’s not like he’s messing with anyone emotionally attached.
Except us, because for us, we just found out a couple days ago that he’s really dead. So this can be rough for the audience on the meta-level, but it’s not something that Walky can be blamed for.
If Walky’s snarking about it to Amber or Ethan, then that’s a different story and should likely be seen as an awful coping mechanism for him. Unless they’ve set it up and are using a similar approach themselves.
Even then though, it should be seen as a failure to read the room and awkwardly trying to use humor to defuse the pain rather than deliberate provocation.
Autogatos
Agreed. Sometimes humor is what a person needs to cope. Yes it can be unhealthy if they’re using it to avoid confronting their feelings and just bottling them up inside instead. But also when you’ve dealt with or are dealing with something that is very painful and unsolvable, you don’t want to spend the rest of your life being depressed about it every second. So you make jokes.
It doesn’t mean you don’t care, it just means you do not want to be sad about this thing right at this moment (or do not want to talk about it at all right now) which is a very valid thing to feel. People who are experiencing trauma do not have to live every second of their life being sad about it.
As someone who has experienced permanent, life-changing trauma that involves often mourning the loss of what I once had, I would not have been able to get through this without the ability to sometimes joke about it, because the alternative would be curled up in bed feeling like life is pointless.
Autogatos
And was for whether Walky specifically does it in a healthy or unhealthy way, I think it’s maybe a bit of both? He clearly has some avoidance issues (see: his math grades, not wanting to have serious talks with his sister, etc). But I’d say it’s also sometimes a great benefit to him, like being able to not fall apart/panic while being kidnapped. Sometimes shoving your feelings down for later is harmful but sometimes it is helpful. These things aren’t always black and white.
Autogatos
I would add also (sorry, so many thoughts. I need an edit button lol): Walky doesn’t know Lucy that well and JUST met Booster. As someone who sometimes uses humor to cope I am WAY more likely to employ it when difficult topics get brought up with people I barely know or just met because I do not feel comfortable having a deep heart-to-heart about deeply personal painful things with someone I barely know in a casual social setting.
If a good friend (or someone in a polite context in which I’ve brought it up) asks, then sure I’ll talk about my feelings. But if It comes up with a neighbor or random relative or work peer then I’m much more likely to make a joke about it to ease the tension because I don’t want to make things awkward by suddenly turning this casual social experience into a dark depressing thing.
So yeah, Walky’s responses seem very very normal and familiar here to me and even though mike was literally my favorite character I do not at all read this as the author making fun of/making light of his death in an offensive way.
Dr T
I don’t recall Walky actually saying a bad thing about Mike, other than that he fell off a building and died. That’s more a statement of fact than anything.
Dark_T_Zeratul
I certainly don’t see him making fun of Mike’s death. Especially not here, where he’s simply acknowledging that he doesn’t want to talk about it, but also that he wants to move stuff even less.
AY
Honestly can’t agree with this. Humor is almost entirely how I navigated my brother’s death for the first two or three years, including jokes directly about his death. Mike and Walky may not have been bosom buddies, but living with someone still changes a relationship and can make emotions complicated. You cope how you gotta cope.
fridge_logic
The worst thing about living someone who leaves or dies is that you build so many memories in the space you shared.
Your brain is just ready for them to come in at any moment and start talking like they always do for some time.
CC
I can’t seem to find it now, but I remember reading something by someone with a recently-deceased (friend? family member?) that went something like, “I don’t visit the grave site. Why would I? He left behind hundreds of open graves, everywhere we’d been. Mostly I try not to fall into any. Some days I even succeed.”
I’m heavily paraphrasing, obviously, b/c if I could remember it accurately enough I’d have probably found it by now, but if anyone recognizes it, I’d love to see it again.
thejeff
The only caveat to that is that you’ve got to be careful with your coping mechanisms when they run into someone even more affected – unlikely with your brother, but definitely a potential problem with Walky.
Not here, since Booster never met Mike and I don’t think Lucy did either, but he’d need to watch the snark around Amber or Ethan.
clif
Reaver, do you not know Walky? I mean the evidence suggests that he certainly can.
TemplarKnight
. . . Toss was a poor choice of words.
Or fantastic. Depends on what you were going for.
Valerie
My dad died of lung cancer. One day, I was coughing and said “oh my god I’m dying” (as I always say when I cough), and my husband said, “you’re not dying.” I said, “Dad coughed a lot, and then -he- died.”
So yeah, dark humor is sometimes the way we cope with loss. If you think Walky’s a bad person for it, then I guess I am, too.
KryssLaBryn
This isn’t about a death; but a few years ago I was diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer, and had to stay in the hospital overnight after the double mastectomy. I was feeling pretty fantastic and joking about it pretty heavily online (I was heavily dysphoric about them so getting them taken off was amazing, ngl).
A good friend was at work and laughing her ass off at her computer and her boss came over and asked her what was so funny and she replied “Oh my friend has cancer” and I’m actually pretty proud of getting that reaction (and her boss’s D: face) out of her ha ha (“Wait! No! She’s joking about it! She’s really funny!” XD)
Dark/gallows humour is definitely how I cope lol.
Octopus Ink
It’s not entirely snark ALL the time.
Walky speaks fluent goofus, after all.
Reltzik
And cultural references! And #stool! He’s a very well-rounded character!
Deanatay
Cultural references are his first language.
Snark is his second.
English? Distant fourth, maybe even fifth.
Sirksome
I’m starting to feel like Booster’s a psyche major.
Doctor_Who
I thought you meant psychic, and wondered if this comic was gonna go in a Scott Pilgrim direction for a sec.
MK15
They could still have vegan powers. We’ll know if they’re vegan; it’d take 5 strips max to mention it.
drs
Reminds me of
“Is Superman from Texas?”
“For that to be true,” Batman said, “it would need to be possible for a man to be from Texas without telling anyone about it for years.”
Geneseepaws
Would Scott Pilgrim be the Ender if the strip?
SpookyFox
god i hope not freshmen psych majors are the Worst
Ron again
They’re bad the first half of the year, then they start realizing they need to learn a whole bunch of statistics to make sense of their data and turn sad.
Zee
Not as bad as freshmen philosophy majors
– a psych major who just started second year
sultryglebe
Not impossible, but I am thinking not neurotypical and has learned to be very precise to deal with it.
Autogatos
Yeah I read them as socially awkward and has maybe been painfully misinterpreted in the past. I have sympathy for anyone who employs this kind of awkward overly precise language because I am someone who does this out of anxiety and has been made fun of for it many times in the past because people think I’m being annoying/arrogant when really I’m just stressed tf out and trying not to be misunderstood.
Dara
The real question is whether they’re a Cousin Oliver or more of a Scrappy Doo.
(That said, most of the commenters seem to like them, so maybe they’ll turn out to be a Dawn Summers. But at the moment I’m getting some serious Scrappy Doo vibes.)
Needfuldoer
Mike died and someone else took over his role as Walky’s roommate, so wouldn’t that make it a Blake/Potter situation?
Dara
That… that would be fine. One can hope.
Reltzik
That or they (he, she, xi, ?) has had a lot of experience with these sorts of potential conversational landmines, and so deliberately takes steps to walk around them.
BBCC
Willis uses they/them pronouns for them.
Deanatay
Everybody likes Booster, because they haven’t seen them being shitty yet. Everyone puts on their best face when they first meet people. We’ll get to know them eventually, give Willis time.
CMasta1992
This is Lucy. She’s horny 24/7 but doesn’t know how to communicate it in a way I catch on to yet.
Reed
booster’s in the wrong dorm hall
Schpoonman
What makes you say that?
SpookyFox
i hope reed means they fit in more with the peppy lucy floor squad
Jon Rich
That’s how I read it, yeah. He seems like a big ol’ ray of sunshine for the most part, and aside from Joyce and now Becky, that isn’t really how this hall acts.
Jon Rich
They, rather, not he.
Reaver
Too mature and level headed, can read a room and be appropriate in conversation for one.
abysswatcher1993
Maybe that is what Reed Hall needs to change status quo. Not everyone is a jerk like our main cast, or maybe Booster has their own problems and doesn’t want people to know about them.
Reaver
Their problem is they’re probably about to become the MOST adultiest of adults amonst their peers.