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Proved

Posted on July 23, 2017 by David M Willis

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Discussion (233) - “Proved”

  1. Ana Chronistic

    07/23/2017, 12:02 am
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    well hopefully that ghost means he ded 9_9 (as much as I suspect otherwise)

    1. Clif

      07/23/2017, 12:11 am
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      The ghosts of the living are more powerful than the ghosts of the dead. As a rule.

      1. Peter Sadlon

        07/23/2017, 12:22 am
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        A concept with which I can attest to.

      2. Charie Spencer

        07/23/2017, 6:41 am
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        Objects in the rear view mirror may appear closer than they are.

        1. JasonAW3

          07/23/2017, 2:00 pm

          As I can attest to as well…

        2. Michael

          07/23/2017, 10:21 pm

          Warning: May contain nuts

        3. Joe Covenant

          07/24/2017, 4:42 am

          Which I can a testes to!

    2. Gojira

      07/23/2017, 1:13 am
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      He’s what Amber always wished her father would say to her. You did good kid.

      1. mister gray

        07/23/2017, 3:01 am
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        More like darth vader saying “I am your father” or Something very ” Search your feelings, you know it to be true!”

        1. Bicycle Bill

          07/23/2017, 1:21 pm

          She *IS* searching her feelings and she does know it to be true … and that’s what is bothering her so much.  I think she was also feeling much the same after having gone into full ‘Avenging Angel’ mode on Toedad’s ass as well as in the aftermath of her beatdown of Blaine, too.  This is one very troubled — and right now, very fragile — young woman.

        2. JasonAW3

          07/23/2017, 2:04 pm

          Wouldn’t want to be her grandfather and say the wrong thing right now! If she didn’t give him the ultimate verbal takedown,vher relatives might need to start porbate on their inheritence…

  2. Emperor Daniel

    07/23/2017, 12:02 am
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    “You, like your father, are now mine.”

    1. MatthewTheLucky

      07/23/2017, 12:04 am
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      Now, we can rule this campus as father and daughter!

      1. Clif

        07/23/2017, 12:14 am
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        And bring AmaziOrder to the Empire of Glasso.

        1. Doctor_Who

          07/23/2017, 12:19 am

          If Blaine is the alternative, then Galasso might actually be the good guy here.

        2. inqntrol

          07/23/2017, 12:42 am

          Better to have Galasso as supreme leader than Blaine, at least he’s not an abusive father.

        3. timemonkey

          07/23/2017, 1:16 am

          Physically, no. Emotionally yes. But perhaps this universe’s has been kept in control by his wife?

        4. Temperaryobsessor

          07/23/2017, 10:00 am

          Yea hopefully if his wife was alive that would be squashed. His abuse mostly consisted in wanting grandchildren way too much especially when Conquest was too young for that.

        5. Schol-R-LEA

          07/23/2017, 4:55 pm

          Hmmmn… I am assuming that if his wife is alive, then the horse thing didn’t happen, as she probably would have had a problem with that stroke of genius. Maybe not, but probably. Depends on a) how much she’s under his thumb, and b) if she’s a zoo herself and wanted Conquest to keep the family tradition alive…

        6. Ana Chronistic

          07/24/2017, 11:43 pm

          jsyk: http://www.dumbingofage.com/tag/pamela/

        7. Mr. Bulbmin

          07/23/2017, 4:41 am

          Now I’m imagining AmaziGirl in a black outfit with a full mask, acting as Galasso’s right hand/enforcer.

          It’s spooky scary.

        8. Ozzi

          07/23/2017, 3:04 pm

          *Whistles the kill bill music*

  3. shadowcell

    07/23/2017, 12:02 am
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    “the (dark side of) the Force will be with you, Amber. always.”

  4. Yumi

    07/23/2017, 12:03 am
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    So that bodes well.

    I am wondering whether this is meant to be an artistic representation or a symptom.

    1. Doctor_Who

      07/23/2017, 12:15 am
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      Yeah, if this is an actual hallucination and not just a metaphor, then this isn’t good.

      Not that it’s good anyway. It’s just even less good.

    2. Michael Steamweed

      07/23/2017, 2:19 am
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      I note the absence of the red background. This doesn’t seem to be a flashback anymore; this seems to be a present-time hallucination. That’s worrying.

    3. Woobie

      07/23/2017, 2:45 am
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      Probably just guilt.

    4. Needfuldoer

      07/23/2017, 8:53 am
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      I’m on Team Metaphor, she’s hearing his voice in her head and drawing him as though he’s there is just a way to express that in a visual medium.

      One of Amber’s biggest fears is becoming like her father (remember what Mike said to her about her relationship with Danny). I think a part of her is second-guessing how far she went in retaliation against not-Ryan, as part of that fear. Hearing Blaine’s voice encourage this shameful side of her personality fits both his MO and her mental state. Of course he’s not feeding this to her telepathically, this is what she thinks he’d say if he was actually there. It’s another peek at her inner conflict.

      1. Needfuldoer

        07/23/2017, 9:08 am
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        Found another example of “Amber slips into Blaine mode, then catches herself”. Danny dismisses the boundary between Amber and Amazi-Girl, then she starts slipping into verbal abuse but immediately throttles back when she realizes she’s re-enacting one of countless instances of abuse between her parents, with him playing Stacy’s role.

        (To be fair to Danny, I think this was when he learned that Amazi-Girl is more than just a game of dress-up to Amber.)

  5. miados

    07/23/2017, 12:03 am
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    you proved you can protect yourself if you have to. thats how i see it.

    1. Screwball

      07/23/2017, 12:06 am
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      True, but I don’t think she sees it that way…

      1. Jason

        07/23/2017, 12:20 am
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        Nooooope. She doesn’t. Not even a little bit.

        Amber needs lots of hugs and lots of therapy (but not at the same time!)

  6. tim gueguen

    07/23/2017, 12:03 am
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    Blaine is totally oblivious that Amber would plunge a knife into him if she felt justified to.

    1. Scar Man!!!

      07/23/2017, 12:26 am
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      He’s probably smile at that

      1. StClair

        07/23/2017, 1:15 am
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        “Take your Jedi weapon. Use it. I am unarmed. Strike me down with it. Give in to your anger! With each passing moment you make yourself more my servant.

        It is unavoidable. It is your destiny.”

    2. David

      07/23/2017, 3:44 am
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      I remember that scene in “Cider House Rules” where the abusive knife-fetish father of some girl is awfully proud that she has lethally wounded him in a manner securing a slow and painful death for him.

      In other words: I am not sure that he’s oblivious. Strange people are strange.

  7. Injuryman

    07/23/2017, 12:04 am
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    Since he’s tagged, I have to assume this is the real Blaine testing out his recently gained powers of astral projection.

    1. Wack'd

      07/23/2017, 12:07 am
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      how about the power to depress your daughter from 500 yards away? that’s telepathy, holmes

      1. Cholma

        07/23/2017, 1:55 am
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        ♫ “Wonder-Blaine, what is the secret to your power?” ♫

    2. UniqueSnowflake2

      07/23/2017, 12:07 am
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      . . . without casting a shadow.

      1. pjeseb

        07/23/2017, 12:13 am
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        It looks to me like he IS casting a shadow.

        1. Tacos

          07/23/2017, 12:15 am

          It looks like it’s the door’s shadow to me.

        2. dn3s

          07/23/2017, 1:25 am

          in panel two, the door’s shadow stage-right of his right leg is 8px tall, while stage-left of his leg it’s 12px tall. to me this suggests his leg is casting a shadow

        3. dn3s

          07/23/2017, 1:25 am

          sorry i got stage-right and stage-left mixed up. other way around!

        4. Shogeton

          07/23/2017, 6:20 pm

          I think pjeseb means casting a shadow in the more metaphorical sense

    3. adjudicus

      07/23/2017, 6:22 am
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      Not necessarily, there was a strip where Joyce imagined everyone around her to be Ryan, but he was still tagged.

      1. thejeff

        07/23/2017, 8:42 am
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        In at least one of those strips, he was actually there. As revealed after his reappearance.

        1. adjudicus

          07/23/2017, 9:40 pm

          Which strip are you referring to?

        2. Spencer

          07/23/2017, 9:50 pm

          It was a Patreon strip. The Ryan that was behind Joyce when she invisioned all the men around her as Ryan was actually him.

  8. Miguel

    07/23/2017, 12:04 am
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    Shit….

  9. shadowcell

    07/23/2017, 12:04 am
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    and then another voice is all “meesa know only one truth…itsa time for Amazi-Girl to bombad end!”

    1. Meta

      07/23/2017, 12:08 am
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      Danny: “I love you”

      Amber: “… Meesa know”

      1. Clif

        07/23/2017, 6:12 am
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        +1 Internet.

  10. Wack'd

    07/23/2017, 12:05 am
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    well hey at least he’s being complimentary? that’s not GOOD but at least it’s novel

    (probably why this version is only in her head, honestly, REAL blaine would be like “well look at the mess of trouble that i now have to sort out, why couldn’t you just stay out of it”)

    1. Quartz Falcon

      07/23/2017, 12:18 am
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      Well yeah. Blaine would have spun the Ryan incident in a way to make Amber feel weak and dependent on him, like he did with Sal’s failed robbery. And on some level Amber knows this.

      But that doesn’t change that she’s come to associate every bad part of her with Blaine, so of course the Blaine in her head will compliment her for letting go of her restraints and doing what “he” would have done.

      1. Dan

        07/23/2017, 12:58 am
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        Not necessarily, there’s not a lot of point from a storytelling perspective for imaginary dad to be telling her his approval unless his approval is something she’s wanted.
        This is clearly a case of “Your approval fills me with shame.”

      2. Ivanka the Terrible

        07/23/2017, 4:29 am
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        Blaine doesn’t really seem to be all that manipulative, he’s more straight-up violent. You’re mixing him up with Ruth’s guardian, who is a different guy with a different bad parenting deal.

        1. Sam

          07/23/2017, 6:44 am

          Um, he manipulated Danny so he could use him as a hostage. He is totally for some manipulation, he just doesn’t use it as extensively as Ruth’s grandfather.

        2. thejeff

          07/23/2017, 8:49 am

          It’s a clear parallel to what he said after the robbery when he goaded her into stabbing Sal. Wonder what he said afterwards?

          Definitely “your approval fills me with shame”, but such is the wonder of abusive parenting, it’s also something she’s longed for throughout her childhood. Just another bit of evidence (to her) that she’s becoming what she fears – a monster like him.

  11. Laladoria

    07/23/2017, 12:05 am
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    Aw, jeez…
    I hope she can realize that this is a completely different situation and she was violent for a GOOD reason.
    ): Poor Amber

  12. Kernanator

    07/23/2017, 12:06 am
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    “Your journey to the Dark Side is now complete.”

  13. ArcaneDarkness

    07/23/2017, 12:06 am
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    The O’Malley is a family of assassins? My suspension of disbelief on the existence of someone like Blaine is a little shaky now.

    1. shadowcell

      07/23/2017, 12:07 am
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      descended from an ancient house of Irish ninjas

      1. Dana

        07/23/2017, 12:23 am
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        Their sworn enemies are Welsh samurai.

      2. Dean

        07/23/2017, 12:34 am
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        Dr McNinja is her cousin, they see each other sometimes at family events. He gave her some good advice about her college application.

        1. dn3s

          07/23/2017, 1:31 am

          so buckets of blood guy is dark smoke puncher then?

        2. Kryss LaBryn

          07/23/2017, 8:42 am

          <333

    2. Jason

      07/23/2017, 12:25 am
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      Joking aside, yeah. People like Blaine exist. He’s a little more dramatic than most RL counterparts would be but this IS a comic. (I was going to include other examples of things being dramatic but changed my mind.)

      Insert Assassins Creed joke here.

      1. rectilinearpropagation

        07/23/2017, 1:10 am
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        Indeed. The only thing that makes Blaine different from many real life abusers is that he lunged at a young woman (Ruth) in front of witnesses and even that’s not something completely unheard of. Most physically abusive people who get away with it do so in part because they never do it in front of anyone who will talk.

        1. Sam

          07/23/2017, 7:02 am

          This is true, he likely wouldn’t have done so if he wasn’t actively chasing Amber. When he was no longer in pursuit of Amber, he did not say, attack Billie who chased him down, he was calm again.

          There are abusers that will be violent and aggressive in front of witnesses but generally abusers try to be more controlled than that as they don’t want legal repercussions and the like.

          Ruth’s grandfather is an example of someone who is confident enough in their abuse that they will frequently and regularly do it right in front of others, but still keep the loudest parts hidden away from people in actual authority i.e. he didn’t give a damn that Billie saw it or heard it but like hell was he going to shout at Ruth in front of the R.M..

    3. Jinxed44

      07/23/2017, 12:37 am
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      Honestly?
      I could almost hear my dad talking like that, though he never beat anyone in my family (other issues like sexism irregardless). He’d be just a little less blood thirsty. Slightly.

      1. Jinxed44

        07/23/2017, 12:38 am
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        Also thankfully, the finally bit wouldnt happen. Again he’s less abusive by a LOT. Sane? meh. Abusive, no.

  14. Passchendaele

    07/23/2017, 12:06 am
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    feck off, blaine, the only thing you proved is everybody wants you to die because you’re a selfish, violent ass.

    1. Scar Man!!!

      07/23/2017, 12:25 am
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      +1

  15. DailyBrad

    07/23/2017, 12:07 am
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    I can relate.

    Not, like, to stabbing people, granted it, but seeing some of your parent in actions and not being happy about it.

  16. The Mad Academic

    07/23/2017, 12:07 am
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    Oh good! Now she’s hallucinating!

  17. admiralnoob

    07/23/2017, 12:07 am
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    It’s the O’Malley touch. Like King Midas except everything they touch turns to blood

    1. Mr. Bulbmin

      07/23/2017, 4:45 am
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      That makes the ending to that story even more horrifying/darkly hilarious.

      “My daughter is a puddle of B-negative blood. REALLY, UNIVERSE?”

      1. morleuca

        07/23/2017, 9:08 am
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        I always liked the Infocom version where everything he touched turned into a 45° angle

  18. Chibz

    07/23/2017, 12:07 am
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    I wish she would have put the knife where it really belongs – right in her father’s skull.

  19. Yossarianduck

    07/23/2017, 12:09 am
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    Never thought I’d say this but, Worst Ghost Dad Ever.

    1. Delicious Taffy

      07/23/2017, 12:28 am
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      Does that include the Cosby movie?

      1. MatthewTheLucky

        07/23/2017, 4:09 am
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        No, but it does include Ghost House.

  20. Fart Captor

    07/23/2017, 12:10 am
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    I actually agree with imaginary Blaine in panel 3, but he and his non-imaginary counterpart can go fuck themselves >:[

    1. Nightsbridge

      07/23/2017, 12:12 am
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      All the people who were like ‘why is Amber afraid when she’s the baddest and hardest to mess with person in the building?’

      This.

      This is why.

      1. Cerberus

        07/23/2017, 12:43 am
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        For those with shitty awful parents, it can be awful to be strong. Because it can feel like the poison of your abusive parent working through you. One of the reasons I’ll do strength exercise, but never self-defense classes. Too much risk of triggering or fulfilling fears.

        1. CJ

          07/23/2017, 2:46 am

          I avoided self-defence classes for that reason for a long time. And then I did wendo (which does a lot about perception, holding your space, being attentive and actually getting used to having options than mere bodily training and techniques). There, on bad days, I could ask the others to train slow-motion with me, because I was in a bad place and might be triggered easily.
          And it was glorious to have a training partner who wasn’t afraid of me and my strength even though she was practically half my size.

        2. ischemgeek

          07/23/2017, 10:55 am

          I get you there.

          I found self defense/martial arts very therapeutic for me, in that it taught me that I am in control of what I do with my body. Others’ mileage may vary, but yeah for me martial arts was key in reclaiming my physical agency.

          OTOH I get suuuper anxious if we have an exercise involving punching something next to someone because my father liked to hit the wall next to my face so yeah I can see where you are coming from if it all felt like that I don’t think I could do it either.

    2. Nightsbridge

      07/23/2017, 12:13 am
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      That was NOT supposed to be a reply to you I am sorry

      1. Fart Captor

        07/23/2017, 1:34 am
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        Still kinda works as one though

  21. Tacos

    07/23/2017, 12:13 am
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    And now she’s seeing her shit hole father. That’s not good.

  22. Jinxed44

    07/23/2017, 12:14 am
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    F*ck.

  23. Brokshi

    07/23/2017, 12:14 am
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    My dad was like this when I was in middle school. I knocked a kid to the ground and when I got suspended for it, he was disappointed I didn’t leap on him and beat him bloody.

    My dad’s an asshole.

  24. Nono

    07/23/2017, 12:17 am
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    I forget, did Stacy change her last name back to her maiden name (whatever it is), or is she still under O’Malley?

    1. Quartz Falcon

      07/23/2017, 12:19 am
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      She told Mike she’s back to her maiden name a few strips back.

    2. Cerberus

      07/23/2017, 12:19 am
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      She’s back to Brannon:
      http://www.dumbingofage.com/2017/comic/book-7/04-the-do-list/omalley/

      1. Needfuldoer

        07/23/2017, 9:13 am
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        Good call.

        1. Halpful

          07/23/2017, 3:26 pm

          might be nice for amber to do the same.

        2. Deanatay

          07/25/2017, 2:51 pm

          Amber doesn’t have a maiden name, tho. She’d be changing her name, not changing it back. I know, seems like a petty distinction, but it can be a lot harder, for some people.

  25. Prinnyramza

    07/23/2017, 12:19 am
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    Avenge me Harry!

  26. Keulan

    07/23/2017, 12:19 am
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    Once more the Sith will rule the galaxy and we shall have peace

  27. Stephen Bierce

    07/23/2017, 12:20 am
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    *plays Bruce Springsteen’s “One Step Up (And Two Steps Back)” on the hacked Muzak*

  28. Delicious Taffy

    07/23/2017, 12:23 am
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    This will definitely help things.

  29. Scar Man!!!

    07/23/2017, 12:24 am
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    Ooooooooooh fuck. Is she really hallucinating?

    1. Fart Captor

      07/23/2017, 12:37 am
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      I’m really hoping that we’re just seeing what she’s imagining, and that Blaine is has only metaphorically taken up residence inside her head

      1. Aviana

        07/23/2017, 7:13 am
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        This is how I read it. If it’s actual full blown hallucinations we’ll probably see more to peg that down later.

    2. Cerberus

      07/23/2017, 12:41 am
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      That would really suck if she was developing schizophrenia like symptoms (I know there’s a formal term for any type of hallucination, but I don’t remember what it is) on top of the dissociative stuff.

      1. Sam

        07/23/2017, 7:04 am
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        Psychosis.

  30. rectilinearpropagation

    07/23/2017, 12:24 am
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    No. BOOO!

    Also, I’m pretty confident in thinking that Blaine has never told Amber “I knew you could do it”. Amber, your dad is too shitty to even praise you for this! Which is…good?????

    Also, now I do have to feel bad her mom left her for donuts. 🙁

  31. JessWitt

    07/23/2017, 12:25 am
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    Oh geez, this really creeped me out. More than the bright red panels of doom.

    1. Halpful

      07/23/2017, 3:28 pm
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      me too.

  32. Jason

    07/23/2017, 12:28 am
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    Typical, I spent ages reading through yesterday’s comments and replying to some just in time for the new strip to post!
    You win this round, Time…

  33. Reltzik

    07/23/2017, 12:29 am
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    You know, the last couple of strips I was thinking, “C’mon Stacy, Amber needs time at the doorway where it happened to process heavy stuff, give her space, don’t keep interrupting that.”

    …..

    INTERRUPT IT! INTERRUPT IT! BURY IT IN DONUTS AND TRIVIALITIES!

    1. rectilinearpropagation

      07/23/2017, 12:57 am
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      IN WITH IT!

      SHOVE IT RIGHT BACK IN!

  34. Plasma Mongoose

    07/23/2017, 12:40 am
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    Strike me down with all of your hatred & your journey towards the dark side will be complete!

  35. Cerberus

    07/23/2017, 12:40 am
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    Comic Reactions:

    Welp… fuck…

    There’s so much badness here, the fixated self-abuse staring at the door, unable to move, just beating herself up over the event, twisting the narrative to view herself as unsympathetic as possible, having a persona of her father approving of her actions. This is brutal to see.

    And especially as she likely has some form of dissociative disorder, this being a potential new alter is a possibility and one that does not pose good things for her mental health as alters like this can be brutal and hard to figure out what to do with.

    I’ve got one I’ve just gotten to calling Pit who has just absorbed all the hateful messaging that gets thrown at folks like me and vomits at me whenever I’m down or tired. And they can get downright abusive in their tactics, playing on my fears and insecurities. They are clearly in pain and lashing out but I haven’t figured out a way to reach them yet.

    And this, at best, reminds me of that, of something in her emulating those deeper fears, making them feel real, present, unavoidable, shutting the gate on her hopes of being a good person. And I worry a lot for the Amber alter. She’s already been terrified of being a monster, of being something the AG alter has to guard against and contain and now she’s got this praising the exact qualities of Amber she is terrified of.

    And at worse, it could be a sign of additional illnesses or disorders cropping up in her garden of PTSD, which is hard enough for her to deal with especially as it doesn’t seem anyone has taken her to get any real mental health care yet (or maybe Amber’s mom did and just didn’t mention it).

    But yeah, this is why Mike’s “pep talk” was actually awful for her. Because she’s terrified of being the violent badass, the person everyone is afraid to mess with. The violent asshole everyone is afraid of is her dad. Is what she fears is corrupting her veins. She never wants to be the violent one again.

    And she gives herself no quarter for the terrifying position she was in. For being in a situation where defending herself was a necessity to avoid being incredibly physically harmed as well as letting others be harmed. What she did was necessarily heroic, but at the terrible cost of a lot of her mental health.

    And it breaks my damn heart.

    1. rectilinearpropagation

      07/23/2017, 1:00 am
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      this being a potential new alter

      I had not thought of this.

      🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁

      Please just be symbolism, just be symbolism!

      1. Clif

        07/23/2017, 6:25 am
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        Or just playing out in her thoughts. Do scenarios not run in your mind? It’s a visual representation of the fact that she’s become what her father wanted her to be.

        1. rectilinearpropagation

          07/23/2017, 1:45 pm

          Do scenarios not run in your mind?

          I was responding to an idea in Cerberus’ comment above.

    2. Reltzik

      07/23/2017, 1:24 am
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      It was occurring to me that somewhere inside her, there was a part of Amber who still craved just this sort of approval and acceptance from her father. Craved it, and never got it.

      It’s merged with what you just said about a new alter.

      Now I’m thinking of an Amber-alter… let’s call her Daddy’s Girl… who is everything he’s ever told her to be. Strong, self-reliant, takes no shit from anyone. Not outright evil, oh no, of course not! But someone who stands up for herself and makes sure everyone knows that she’s on top of the pecking order, who always gives better than she gets, doesn’t give any backtalk, and does what’s necessary to win.

      …..

      ….. okay, my sympathy for Amber is warring with my love of drama, here.

    3. ValdVin

      07/23/2017, 8:00 am
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      Mike doesn’t much recognize the kind of power which conflates with “respect”, does he?

      I get it, that sometimes he’s a “necessary truth-teller”.

      But often there’s more to it than that; Sarah once told Joyce that continuing to “date” Ethan would lose her friends, especially Dorothy. This is Sarah at her best, her “not doing it for the joy” demeanor, prefaced with the truthful “I don’t butt into other folks’ business, however…” and she doesn’t take pleasure in shit-stirring the way Mike seems to all too often.

    4. Halpful

      07/23/2017, 4:10 pm
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      “They are clearly in pain and lashing out but I haven’t figured out a way to reach them yet.”

      same. *hugs* there’s so, so much pain, and I feel like I’ve only seen the tip of the iceberg.

      kinda makes me think of Kurama, and how Naruto said he’d do something about the hatred in him someday 🙂

  36. QueerBitch

    07/23/2017, 12:50 am
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    I’m gonna say what I’ve always said.
    I relate to this. Even if logically you know genetics don’t work that way and that abusive tendencies don’t run in your family…that mindset doesn’t go away once it’s there. It just doesn’t. I’m able to logically convince myself that I’m not my dad and even I STILL feel like if I don’t control my emotions I’ll snap.
    I don’t think I’d mind stabbing a rapist. I’m pretty defensive and morally have no real issue with violence when necessary…but if I attacked someone (even if they deserved it) in a state of total loss of control/blackout then I’d still be scared. I’d still be worried about what it said about me. Even knowing logically that it doesn’t have to mean shit…this mindset takes forever to get rid of. I’m still working on it.

    I hope this comic shows her handling it eventually down the road. Because maybe that will help people like me.

    1. Adam Black

      07/23/2017, 4:20 am
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      This seems might like it might be a good reason to retire the Mask for a while

      1. Clif

        07/23/2017, 6:30 am
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        A propensity to violence *can* be genetic in certain cases, but propensity isn’t destiny. On the other hand exposure to violence beats violence. We carry our parents around inside us.

        1. Clif

          07/23/2017, 6:35 am

          Also, Amber needs the mask in order to provide a safe outlet for her violent tendencies. Safe because they are expressed and curtailed by a strict comic-book moral code. Easy to criticize, but Amber makes it work.

        2. Adam Black

          07/23/2017, 11:51 pm

          Not a safe outlet. She almost died multiple times, because she had something to prove.

          Shes Taken out Blaine; Sal, her original nemesis, reformed.
          She caught the rapist Amazigirl let escape, and…
          what Blaine said… She didnt freeze, she didnt use a defensse mechanism,
          She disarmed and took out a Slasher in a action.

          Amazigirl also exists to overcome crippling social anxiety.

          She has conquered her biggest fears in real life as herself, not amazigirl.
          She needs to take a break and absorb these things and integrate these new facts.

  37. Saaaam

    07/23/2017, 12:55 am
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    I know it’s Amber’s version of her father, but real him probably would be against this particular stabbing

    1. Anowan

      07/23/2017, 5:33 am
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      I see your point. Last time, it was about stabbing a black girl ; this time, it was a white man.

      Is Blaine an asshole who will automatically stand for the most privileged, or a true whateverpath who wants only his kin to win at life ?

      (Or, you know, a terrible parent who will be disappointed in you whatever you do. “Okay you stabbed a dude. Like I told you. Well. Hum. You could have stabbed him more gracefully. Not very ladylike of you !”)

      1. Clif

        07/23/2017, 6:36 am
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        The second.

  38. Cass

    07/23/2017, 12:57 am
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    How long will it take for Amber to ask her mom to change her last name to Brannon too?

    1. rectilinearpropagation

      07/23/2017, 1:02 am
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      She probably doesn’t need her mom’s permission at this point, right? They’re all 18.

      It’s an epic pain in the ass and it tends to gum up the works anytime you really have to prove your identity, but it’s worth it in this case.

      1. Cass

        07/23/2017, 1:11 am
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        I probably should have said “if she can” rather than “to”. Obviously the answer would be yes, it just feels like the type of thing you’d ask before doing even if you know you can. To me anyway.

        1. rectilinearpropagation

          07/23/2017, 1:39 am

          Ah, OK. That makes sense.

        2. Cass

          07/23/2017, 2:31 am

          Or she could pick her own last name! She could be Amber Fitzstacy and when people ask her about it she could say “Because I have no father” and they could go “Okay, but you know that means ‘Son of’ right?” and she can you “…Yes, but all the ‘Daughter of’ prefixes sound weird with ‘Stacey'”

        3. neeks

          07/23/2017, 3:45 am

          Alternate response: “the better to confound my enemies”

        4. Ivanka the Terrible

          07/23/2017, 4:33 am

          Stachzdottr, perhaps?

        5. Clif

          07/23/2017, 6:38 am

          Anything but Amber Amber.

        6. NickG

          07/23/2017, 9:25 am

          She is more of a Ruby really.

        7. Delicious Taffy

          07/23/2017, 4:50 pm

          Nah, Dorothy is more like Ruby than Amber is.

        8. ValdVin

          07/23/2017, 4:42 am

          Amber Stacysdottir sounds normative enough to me.

          I think that’s how Icelandic convention would have it, and “I’m picking this after my one good parent” is built right in.

        9. Perry

          07/23/2017, 12:43 pm

          How about the Gaelic “Nic-” meaning “daughter of”? Then it could be NicStéise, or maybe NicAnnstas if you want to use the older equivalent of “Anastasia” for “Stacy.”

  39. Phil Dog

    07/23/2017, 1:06 am
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    So basically he’s Flame Hero: Endeavor from BNHA

  40. Wendy

    07/23/2017, 1:06 am
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    Her dad probably WOULD say this. Her dad would probably be proud of her. After all, her dad IS the one who made her learn how to fight.

    The voice thay has been pushing her all this time is the one who said to her so many years ago, “Don’t you want to be different? Don’t you WANT to be different?!”

    Well, she has finally proven she has become different – in the way he meant. On some level, it might even feel good.

    And THAT…is likely an ugly thought to her.

    1. Sam

      07/23/2017, 7:13 am
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      Or he would be disappointed again for another arbitrary reason like ‘You only stabbed him a little! What kind of a failure doesn’t know how to stab!’ because he is an asshole and an abuser and would do anything to destroy her confidence in herself to have control over her.

  41. Tomas

    07/23/2017, 1:33 am
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    Re: panel 3.
    Paging Dr. Freud…

  42. HeatherJean

    07/23/2017, 2:06 am
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    Am I alone in considering the possibility that the entire chapter so far has only existed in Amber’s mind? The first panel of her outside the doors has her alone, sans Stacy. Then inside, with Stacy. Then outside, with Blaine.

    Blaine’s appearance seems to be accepted here by readers as imaginary; I don’t see why Stacy’s is necessarily otherwise. And the characters have, since the chapter beginning, seemed a bit “off” according to some of the comments. Maybe they’re acting the way Amber thinks they might, and she’s in a rubber room in a straitjacket.

    (She DOES know about Joe’s “Do list” BTW. )http://www.dumbingofage.com/2012/comic/book-2/02-choosing-my-religion/journalism/

    1. Wack'd

      07/23/2017, 3:34 am
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      I wanna say that seems a bit too much but Stacey did spontaniously disappear for a panel two strips ago, and the Matt Smith coat swap from Doctor Who series 5 has made me endlessly paranoid about the possibility of visual continuity errors being deliberate.

    2. Clif

      07/23/2017, 6:47 am
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      I considered it, Heather, and then decided that the only reason we couldn’t see Stacy was that Dana was blocking our view. Fueled by a donut sugar high, she was in stealth mode checking to see if any dinosaurs had wondered onto campus.

      1. thejeff

        07/23/2017, 12:11 pm
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        I think it was more that Amber walked up first, storming away from Mike, then stood there frozen, unable to enter until Stacy caught up.

        Doesn’t really make sense as imaginary – particularly with a couple strips of Stacy interacting with Joe. Amber knows about Joe’s list, but she likely wouldn’t know about it being revealed or about Joe being pushed towards some sort of apology or about Danny’s “good egg” persona or about her mom & Richard.

    3. Needfuldoer

      07/23/2017, 12:18 pm
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      The Dumbiverse and all the universes it crosses paths with only exist in the mind of an autistic Amber staring into a snow globe.

      1. Delicious Taffy

        07/23/2017, 4:48 pm
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        That’s not how autism works. We don’t just generate entire universes by looking at snow globes.

        1. Halpful

          07/23/2017, 5:21 pm

          yeah… although as a kid I did imagine an alternate universe in the bathroom tiles. but it was populated with geometry, not humans.

          this was before I started bringing books into the bathroom, of course.

  43. Iain

    07/23/2017, 2:08 am
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    Fire that man right out of your head canon!

  44. Enya

    07/23/2017, 2:11 am
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    Oh hell, please don’t let Amber’s father be a persecutor alter.

  45. Wolfbeckett

    07/23/2017, 2:14 am
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    Honestly the douche bag has a pretty good point there in panel 3.

  46. Mr D

    07/23/2017, 2:17 am
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    …You know, I’m really curious about Blaine’s backstory.

    1. Fart Captor

      07/23/2017, 2:38 am
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      Well you see, once there was a truck stop restroom next to a shady sea food restaurant in Iowa, where one of the toilets in the men’s room was never flushed. After fifty years of this, the truck stop was struck by lightning and caught fire, and out of the reeking smoke and the flames emerged a figure that was almost that of a man…

      1. Eldritch Gentleman

        07/23/2017, 5:53 am
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        No No, the truth is that over those fifty years the shit created it’s own vicious, murderous civilization and once a single shit-being managed to beat the rest into submission he ordered a grand project to begin. Creating a humanoid robot he could use to go out into the world and spread it’s shittiness to it.

    2. neeks

      07/23/2017, 3:52 am
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      I’m glad I’m not the only one wondering how he got to the point where knife violence is just something that personal interactions naturally progress to. Or just violence, I guess.

      Mind you he’s definitely a shitty person and I’m not saying the “why” of it excuses any of his toxicity. Knowing why a thing is a thing doesn’t make it any less of a thing or require you to have anything to do with aforementioned thing.

    3. Ivanka the Terrible

      07/23/2017, 4:36 am
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      Him existing and being that much of a violent, abusive prick isn’t actually that unusual or in need of explanation, unfortunately.

      The only really unusual bit is him managing to hold down a job capable of putting a kid through college while maintaining that level of asshole, while plenty of people like that exist it doesn’t generally serve them very well in the other parts of their life that require interacting with others and dealing reasonably with status differentials, like employment.

      1. Sam

        07/23/2017, 7:31 am
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        The thing about abusers is, apart from with their victims, they are able to treat everyone else around them perfectly normally – they are not INCAPABLE of respect for others. An abuser differs from the run of the mill asshole in this way – they are able to blend into society with everyone except around their victims who they don’t respect at all.

        This is why it is so hard for victims to be believed about abuse – their abusers can hold respectful jobs e.g. teacher, doctor, nurse, firefighter, lawyer, surgeon and be very good at them, and they may volunteer, and they may be a pillar of their community. They may be shy and quiet and really funny or they may be loud and goofy and or they may be stoic but a hardworker – they may seem like the sweetest person in the world to everyone else. But they aren’t to their victims.

      2. Mr D

        07/23/2017, 10:07 pm
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        Maybe he’s a cop.

  47. Adj

    07/23/2017, 2:31 am
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    Okay, ick.

    I mean, it’s a good story, but it’s icky.

    I wouldn’t mind if we got back to the happy lesbian stories. But perhaps nothing but Dina/Becky stories would be boring to other folks, including the author. 🙂

  48. Jess

    07/23/2017, 2:43 am
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    That’s heckin rough. 🙁

    …Still, I hope that maybe this is the push she needs to get into therapy and get better?

  49. rectilinearpropagation

    07/23/2017, 2:49 am
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    I JUST NOTICED BLAINE HAS SHADOWS CAST ON HIM.

    Why does he have shadows cast on him if he isn’t real? It’s creepy and I don’t like it.

    …I guess a real hallucination would appear to interact with real world light (I don’t know, I never looked at mine long enough to tell) but video games have spent years telling me that things that aren’t real don’t have shadows or have shadows cast on them.

    1. Miri

      07/23/2017, 4:22 am
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      But that means all your subconscious has to do to convince you your hallucinations are really there is for them to appear to interact with light.

      It’s how we usually see things so imagining them like that is probably easier than imagining them without shadows etc…

      1. Clif

        07/23/2017, 6:55 am
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        It’s a visual representation of what’s going on in Amber’s mind as she stands there quitely. In the first panel, shadows are cast on Blaine but he casts no shadow himself, unlike Amber . But since this is just to let us see what Amber is thinking, it’s kind of arbitrary.

      2. rectilinearpropagation

        07/23/2017, 1:52 pm
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        Well I don’t know that that’s *all* they’d have to do. But, again, never looked at them long enough to appreciate anything beyond the fact that what I was looking at couldn’t be real.

  50. Kitschensyngk

    07/23/2017, 2:51 am
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    It is unavoidable.

    It is your destiny.

    You, like your mother, are now mine.

  51. Bagge

    07/23/2017, 2:51 am
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    FUDGE YOU BLAINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    EVERYONE HUG AMBER, NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!

    1. Deanatay

      07/25/2017, 2:57 pm
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      ALL HUGS ON DECK!!!

  52. @zombieundergrnd

    07/23/2017, 3:08 am
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    Must be cool having the Flash as your father.
    One millisecond he isn’t there, then another millisecond later he is there giving you advice. And then a millisecond after the last word leaves his mouth, he is gone again.
    Thanks Pops.

  53. NinjaNick

    07/23/2017, 3:12 am
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    Wipe that smirk off that face, Blaine.

  54. BenRG

    07/23/2017, 3:15 am
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    Of course, that’s Amber’s greatest fear, isn’t it? That in becoming strong she is effectively becoming her father. That’s irrational but it’s a very real and very powerful fear for her and you can’t just wave it (and the effect it has on her) away simply because it is not true.

    That’s another big problem for someone in Amber’s position? Those fears? The spectres of those who tormented you? They never really go away; you just learn to ignore them and not let them impact on your life nine times out of ten. Of course, it’s that one time out of ten that reall, really sucks.

    1. Ivanka the Terrible

      07/23/2017, 4:40 am
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      She mostly can’t wave it away because it _is_ true. She quite literally roams the streets looking for someone to assault in her spare time, she’s pretty much turned into him already with the only difference being that she hasn’t dropped the last thin layer of rationalization yet.

      When you’re already applying the cycle of violence to other people in actual physical terms it’s no longer an _unfounded_ worry, more the acknowledgement of an uncomfortable fact. She needs to start dealing with her abusiveness as an actual problem that’s already well-established in her behavior instead of pretending it’s a vague potential that may or may not come about, or it’ll get way the hell worse before it gets better.

      1. Sam

        07/23/2017, 7:47 am
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        NO! She hasn’t!

        Having anger problems and being prone to violence are not the same as being actually abusive, controlling, manipulative and tricking someone into a hostage situation the way Blaine did.

        She is not her father for struggling with her anger issues combined with PTSD, DID and endless self-loathing that are all untreated, particularly when she tries to redirect her anger only at people who deserve it and then punishes herself for ever doing anything wrong ever like almost insulting someone and is punishing herself now for defending herself against someone that otherwise could have killed her, Dorothy and Joyce.

        1. Fart Captor

          07/23/2017, 6:22 pm

          This, 100%.

          Blaine is a fuck-ton worse than just someone who has difficulty with anger management and goes looking for fights, even if it were fair to Amber to boil her down to such a description. Which it isn’t, because it’s been very clearly shown that she’s is a far, far better person than Blaine.

  55. Danni

    07/23/2017, 4:04 am
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    ive seen some piles of shit, but damn if blaine o’ malley aint one of the biggest piles.

  56. BloodRedSky

    07/23/2017, 4:04 am
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    He needs to not

  57. Mr.Morningstar

    07/23/2017, 4:11 am
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    Amber you really need some therapy or counselling or SOMETHING because goddamn thats a shitty thing to be hallucinating

  58. Nenja

    07/23/2017, 5:44 am
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    Noooo, Amber, don’t listen to the fucker!

  59. Betty Anne

    07/23/2017, 8:37 am
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    Art choices aside, it’s also entirely possible she’s just hearing Blaine and not seeing him. The big difference being tons of us hear our parents on a regular basis when they’re not there; it’s part of having an overbearing parent for most of your life.

    That said, this is definitely echoing back to what happened with Sal. Before she got upset and stabbed Sal in the hand, Blaine had been berating her for not taking the knife from Sal and protecting her friend with it. Here, she took the knife from Druggo McStabbed and protected her friend with it. She came full circle and did what Blaine claimed he “wanted” her to do.

    The problem at this point is whether or not she can use this as a turning point to heal, or if this sends her into a spiral of anxiety that she has become her dad despite her best efforts.

  60. Vulcanodon

    07/23/2017, 8:42 am
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    Oh, Amber, honey, don’t hang out next to that door. Go have a donut. It will be awkward but your friends are there…

  61. Irredentist

    07/23/2017, 8:49 am
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    Learn to use the Dark Side of the Force, Amber!

  62. Pat Myers

    07/23/2017, 9:17 am
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    Oh Amber, Blaine would never say that. He’d be criticizing your form.

  63. Jerry

    07/23/2017, 10:03 am
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    I like Blaine… 😀

    1. Valerie

      07/23/2017, 11:59 am
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      Why?

      1. rectilinearpropagation

        07/23/2017, 1:48 pm
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        I think they’re trying to get yelled at.

        That or they’re new here.

        Or both.

        1. Jerry

          07/24/2017, 2:04 am

          I have been here since the first strip thanks…
          I just like agressive, self-centered, A-hole characters. so he’s fun! ^^

        2. Valerie

          07/25/2017, 2:23 pm

          I’ve liked some messed up characters myself, but… Blaine, ugh.

      2. Zatar

        07/23/2017, 1:48 pm
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        How?

  64. Zaxares

    07/23/2017, 10:22 am
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    “Now… Strike down your father, and your journey to the Dark Side will be complete!”

  65. a/snow mous/e

    07/23/2017, 10:27 am
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    Her mom subscribes to toxic masculinity* and her dad is Blaine. Poor Amber.

    *depending on your reading of the last comic (controversial)

  66. Mackabre

    07/23/2017, 10:35 am
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    She’s going full Franco! Ignore the ghost dad! Don’t become the goblin!

  67. Noxx

    07/23/2017, 11:17 am
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    Killing is incredibly traumatic for the mentally / emotionally stable. I can hardly begin to fathom the impact on a personality like Amber’s. Opens a long potential future in her character development.

    1. Valerie

      07/23/2017, 12:00 pm
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      She didn’t -kill- Ryan, but your point stands.

      1. Emperor Daniel

        07/23/2017, 9:55 pm
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        We don’t know that she didn’t kill Ryan.

  68. Jamie

    07/23/2017, 1:22 pm
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    … so why DID Amber keep her father’s name? Especially if her mom had the thought to change back and followed through.

    1. Danni

      07/23/2017, 1:34 pm
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      maybe she was too young?

    2. rectilinearpropagation

      07/23/2017, 2:51 pm
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      I got the feeling that Stacy changed her last name very recently. If she’d changed it years ago, Mike would have probably known that and not tried to address her as O’Malley.

      So even if Stacy did tell Amber she was doing it, Amber likely hasn’t had the time to do it herself.

      1. anonymsly

        07/23/2017, 3:54 pm
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        I wonder if it’s not a very conscious choice on Amber’s part, given how badly she thinks of herself. She continues to use ‘O’Malley’ because it’s a warning to others. I AM AN O’MALLEY. I AM POISON. I’M NOT EVEN HIDING IT.

        Changing to Brannon the way her mother has might feel like a filthy trick to play on all the innocent people around her, to Amber.

        1. Halpful

          07/23/2017, 4:21 pm

          aw fuck, that makes sense 🙁

          hell, my own screen name is a reminder to myself that “helping” isn’t always actually helpful…

        2. Aphrodite

          07/23/2017, 7:16 pm

          To add to that, sometimes the best way to help is to do nothing.

        3. thejeff

          07/23/2017, 7:39 pm

          Possible. OTOH, it’s pretty common, even without the abuse, for divorced women to change their names back to their original name (assuming they changed it in the first place.) It’s much rarer for children of divorced parents to change their names to match the mom’s.
          Amber would be making a much stronger statement by doing so and probably face more resistance in getting it done.

        4. DinaWho

          07/23/2017, 9:45 pm

          This was my impression as well. Brannon is a name Stacy already had and went back to. Amber’s last name has always been O’Malley. My understanding is that there’s probably greater legal obstacles to a name change in that case.

  69. moo

    07/23/2017, 2:06 pm
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    Right premise, wrong conclusion. Knife went in a perfectly reasonable place for it to go.

    1. Aphrodite

      07/23/2017, 7:14 pm
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      It was just some punk with a knife after all….right?

  70. Tealjoy Grove

    07/23/2017, 2:21 pm
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    That man really did ruin her. I honestly do applaud her mother even though she doesn’t see how hard Amber is struggling, but the fact that she is smiling, still laughing, and moving on with her life is still a great feat since that bastard of a man still continues to breathe.

  71. Tom T.

    07/23/2017, 2:44 pm
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    “You are now ready to open a cliched suburban Irish pub.”

  72. Ryek Hvek

    07/23/2017, 2:54 pm
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    She’s thinking, I’ll become either Captain Stabby, or maybe The Porcupine.

  73. Synnerman

    07/23/2017, 3:19 pm
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    This reminds me that Scarboy is probably in the hospital with Blaine and they are bonding, and he’s going to come out as the Joker to Amazigirl’s Batman.

  74. Halpful

    07/23/2017, 4:28 pm
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    There’s something about that “I knew you could do it” that I find… part nauseating, part infuriating. I’m not entirely sure why. Like, it’s awful in the comic, but something buried in my mind wants to *destroy* it. there’s so much frustrated anger I can’t make sense of why the feelings are so strong.

  75. Falling Star

    07/23/2017, 6:25 pm
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    Is anyone else reminded of Flowey in that second panel?
    Just me?
    Okay.

    1. rectilinearpropagation

      07/23/2017, 8:03 pm
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      I knew you had it in you

  76. darkoneko

    07/23/2017, 6:34 pm
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    Oh no.

  77. Aphrodite

    07/23/2017, 7:13 pm
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    This might be an improvement, if Amzi-girl is gone and all Amber is doing right now is hallucinating, she can be medicated quite easily. (DID is far more complicated then hallucinations)

    1. Halpful

      07/23/2017, 7:48 pm
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      “be medicated” is… not a great way of phrasing that. like, it should be something she chooses for her own health, not something done to her by others.

  78. Puckish Rogue

    07/23/2017, 7:34 pm
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    Quite a good comic this, we’ve had the outrage that Joes actions (or inactions if you like) had caused on the message board followed up by the lack of concern by Stacy (my take on it) of Joes actions probably caused by what shes seen and now we Blaine himself (yes ok hes not really there) to really hammer home what a bad guy really looks like

    and that last panel is a real cliff hanger

    1. thejeff

      07/23/2017, 9:27 pm
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      Just to be clear, are you implying that the point of this storyline focused on Joe and his list, including the outrage and anger of many of the women involved, is that we (and they) are overreacting and Joe’s really not so bad?

      Cause, I’m pretty sure that’s not where Willis is going. “Women overreact to sexism” isn’t really a Willis trope, any more than “black people imagine racism” is.
      You’re right that Joe isn’t on the same level of bad guy as Blaine, or Toedad, or Clint, or Ryan – whose absence hangs over this whole chapter. But even a lesser problem is still a problem.

      Of course, Joe’s close enough to a main character, that his story arc will be a learning and growing one, not a threat to be beaten. This is just the first step in him recognizing his own problems.

      1. Puckish Rogue

        07/23/2017, 11:19 pm
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        No I’m not saying or implying that. I’m saying its interesting watching different peoples reactions to the same incident (much like on the message board) in that the girls on the floor mostly think Joe is a cruel, thoughtless a-hole whereas Stacy probably thinks hes a boy that apologizes and gives free donuts

  79. newllend(henryvolt)

    07/23/2017, 8:23 pm
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    She used her anger for good and because her two people are alive and well, does she need to work out her aggression? Maybe, but there was no don’t that it was worth it considering what was at stake.

    Hopefully Amber can talk this out with someone so she can have peace offor mind, Joyce, Dorothy, Sal, maybe even Danny. But one thing is for sure no matter what she’s not her father.

  80. d m

    07/23/2017, 8:35 pm
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    I have a bad feeling he isn’t a hallucination. I am guessing, due to the nature of the incident, that BOTH parents were called in to a conference with the college. The concern becomes if her actions will result in her expulsion as well as….well, if he survived the incident, and his parents don’t claim that he was provoked, and the criminal charges he racked up–terrorist threats, attempted assault, attempted assault with a deadly weapon, not sure if he would get possession of a deadly weapon…scar face.

    1. Fart Captor

      07/23/2017, 9:20 pm
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      Considering how Blaine was barred from setting foot on campus the last time he was there, I think we can rule out him being called there by the university. Even if Stacy didn’t get full custody, Amber’s 18, so he has absolutely no right to be involved in any capacity unless Amber wants him to be.

  81. SmokedToast

    07/23/2017, 9:01 pm
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    I’ve been thinking on this a long time, but I’m starting to think that Amber’s issues may be closer to cognitive dissonance. The last few strips have been hitting home a lot, I’ve internallized voices like Mike a few strips back and blaine here as a way of being functional through my own dissonance.
    For some people, their demons are so internalized that it isn’t a gentle hand that gets them moving. Sometimes we do need to do it out of spite, even though it hurts us. Not saying it’s a good thing mind you, or dismissing anyone else’s experiences. But spite is a powerful motivator and we’ve seen Amber act on spite a few times.

  82. shammers

    07/23/2017, 10:29 pm
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    fuck you blaine

    and if you’re a ghost or whatever: fuck you ghost blaine

  83. Skeptible

    07/24/2017, 1:57 pm
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    Before I started reading the DOA comments I thought I was a pessimist. Now I have a better idea of what a real pessimist is like.

  84. SanguinePsycho

    07/25/2017, 11:10 am
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    Well he’s not wrong

  85. Orion Fury

    07/25/2017, 2:14 pm
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    It is a challenge to not want to ‘do unto others’ when it comes to him, huh? Anyone accepting?

  86. Hari

    07/26/2017, 4:23 pm
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    I had a similar moment. No, not knifing somebody. My father was exactly like Blaine. Whenever I got into fights or drank he’d congratulate me and say he was proud of me. Other than that, he brutalized me verbally and physically

  87. Raibean

    07/29/2017, 2:46 am
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    “Am I Luke?? Or am I Kylo Ren???”

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