I tried very, very hard to be me for many years, wondering how I was doing it
so very wrong, until I realized the question was wrong. We’re doing a lot better now.
That first jab Joyce threw in panel 1 seems… kinda mean-spirited. I know she’s not the biggest fan re:Joe’s attitude towards casual sex, but that still feels a little low.
He deserves it though. As much progress as they’ve made their first interactions weren’t great. If it’s Joyce then Joe kinda has to take those hits on the chin…which is good cause Joe has a lot of chin.
Joe deserves to be told he wouldn’t recognize love?
Sirksome
The guy who had a do-list and spent the entirety of his first semester objectifying women and casually hooking up, absolutely deserves to be told that by the girl he thought deflowering would improve her desirability yes. I think so. Cause until very recently he hasn’t done anything to prove Joyce should think otherwise.
Nono
I mean, they’re friends at this point. It just seems pretty snipish. Considering the amount of heartfelt texting back and forth they did Joyce should know by now Joe’s not a heartless sex monster.
Sirksome
It’s because they’re friends now that Joe has to kind of deal with it. He’s in the red with Joyce. He may never be able to make up for it either. Cause of stuff like this.
So even if they end up married one day Joe’s gotta kind of hold the L. I don’t feel bad for him.
shrub
If Joe and Joyce end up married then its a good chance they’ve both put it behind them
darkgloomie
If they end up married and Joyce keeps bringing up stuff he did in college, the relationship is a fucking mess and they really should break up
Liliet
Unless it’s turned into a running gag that Joe finds endearing, which I very much expect tbh
Cerusee
This isn’t strictly speaking wrong, but god bless this comments section for its amazing consistency at catastrophizing relationship dynamics that don’t even exist yet
Reaver
Didn’t Joyce have Mike come along on their date and physically assault Joe for making her upset? Does she like never get to live that down too or just Joe gets to deal with his teenage actions forever because people don’t like them?
Orson Smelles
I think a healthy destination for Joyce *does* involve acknowledging that she harmed people before she started reflecting on her beliefs, and yeah, I think that does mean accepting it’s a part of her personal history and that people who were affected by it have a right to remember and have opinions/feelings about it.
thejeff
I think they’ve both kind of dealt with it honestly.
They both have a ways to go. Joe’s done a lot of his work internally, so it’s not surprising no one realizes he’s thinking differently now.
Vanessa
Y’all and TheJeff have some great ideas here. There is big similarity in how Joe and Joyce both have been suffering some intense character development — and no one recognizes it! Joe seems to be trying to hide how he is becoming sensitive and appreciative of sweet relationships and of Joyce as a person, while Joyce is so actively yo-yoing between lashing out and freaking out that no one can tell that SHE’s being a different person too. It’s hard to tell what they’ve been texting about given how hostile Joyce is to Joe today, but she is pretty darn hostile all around lately. Maybe they can recognize mutual struggle.
Bysmerian
You aren’t wrong. Joe did some pretty reprehensible shit early on. But on the other hand, I also think that a friendship dynamic–or any other positive personal connection–isn’t gonna be helped by that kind of low blow. If you want to hold that against him, great. It’s a reasonable stance and nobody is demanding you forgive and forget. But you don’t call that person a friend if it’s going to be at the forefront of your interactions.
Sirksome
I’m not holding his past actions against Joe, but people think this is some kind of low blow against the dude and I’m just wondering why? We know his history and their history together. It was a fair criticism to me, especially coming from Joyce who he knows he’s unintentionally hurt in the past. Joe seems to know it too since he moved on without a response.
Bysmerian
Agreed, but that pause reads like he’s not comfortable with what she said and trying to change the subject, especially when it was a personal barb directed at an innocuous comment.
It’s also, I suppose, powered in part by the reader knowledge that his womanizing ways were at least partially a defense mechanism to prevent anyone else from getting too close, as he’s afraid he might hurt them like his father has his ex-wives. It was still harmful, of course, as Joyce made very explicit.
Clif
Reread the strips leading up to his first date with Joyce. That would be a yes.
“I’ve gotta take a little time
A little time to think things over
I better read between the lines
In case I need it when I’m older
This mountain, I must climb
Feels like a world upon my shoulders
Through the clouds, I see love shine
Keeps me warm as life grows colder
In my life, there’s been heartache and pain
I don’t know if I can face it again
Can’t stop now, I’ve traveled so far
To change this lonely life
I wanna know what love is
I want you to show me
I wanna feel what love is
I know you can show me (hey)
Gotta take a little time
Little time to look around me
I’ve got nowhere left to hide
Looks like love has finally found me
In my life, there’s been heartache and pain
I don’t know if I can face it again
Can’t stop now, I’ve traveled so far
To change this lonely life
I wanna know what love is
I want you to show me
I wanna feel what love is
I know you can show me
I wanna know what love is (I wanna know)
I want you to show me (I wanna feel)
I wanna feel what love is (I know, I know, and I know)
I know you can show me
Let’s talk about love
I wanna know what love is
(Love that you feel inside)
I want you to show me
(I’m feeling so much love)
I wanna feel what love is
(And you know, you just can’t hide)
I know you can show me
Oh, I wanna know what love is
(Let’s talk about love)
I know you can show me
(I wanna feel)
I wanna feel what love is
(And you know you just can’t hide)
I know you can show me
I wanna feel what love is (oh, I wanna know)
I want you to show me”
No, he doesn’t, and it’s a pretty mean thing not just to say to ANYONE, but specifically a kid whose parents have divorced, and who apparently did not take it well.
It should be beneath Joyce, but it’s honestly not. She’s been pretty petty for a hot minute at this point.
I took it as more of a dry comment than her necessarily going for the jugular here, though.
darkgloomie
In fairness to Jouce, she still has her Unholy Period to deal with, with the painful cramps and heavy bleeding. She earns *some* slack for her pettiness and snippiness
It’s a fair point though. Joe’s the kind to actively proclaim he avoids love that can be described as “in love”. He has done so before (or damn close to). So… from Joyce’s perspective, how would Joe recognise being in love?
…Which might be a question with the potential to hit home particularly hard for him right now.
I think she’s in a bit of a pissy mood due to… well, any of a number of things, but definitely in the mix her slight realization that she LIKES Joe and doesn’t want to. She doesn’t know what to do with this, so she’s lashing out.
The sexual tension is so high, the only way they can release it in a gradual manner is to write out a formal contract with 2 signatures, 5 spots for initials, and a buttprint scan. No actual mention of the pleasures of butt-touching, no no!
/s because I actually want butt-touching, too, secretly
“Sudden Dorothy” is a concept for a Hatefuck Porn Comic between Dorothy and Jennifer in which Dorothy is the sexual aggressor. Jennifer can’t get away from Dorothy, because Dorothy has the deus ex machina powers of Dot from Animaniacs. You turn, and she’s there. You turn in the opposite direction, and she’s there. Dorothy can articulate how this works. She will explain it it long drawn-out ways that resemble a lecture. It is a lecture that Jennifer cannot escape, no matter where she runs. Dorothy is Omnipotent but usually doesn’t make a fuss about it.
Miri
She has a flip chart presentation prepared and a pointer and everything!
184 thoughts on “Something’s up”
Ana Chronistic
Moe RothenbergJOB ROSENTHABReltzik
Joel Rosybumm.
fridge_logic
Moe Rocketbod
Diana Nock
Jorf Punchbeef!
Freezer
Yo Tosenblargh!
StClair
Jack Hardpec!
Leorale
Slab McLargeHuge!
Psi Baka Onna
Squarejaw O’Finebuttell
Freezer
Impure McLustobject
Stephen Nedland
Blast Hardcheese!
Benjamin Geiger
Lump Beefbroth.
mrnoidea
Jojoyce Rosenthown!
Diana Nock
New ship name.
Deanatay
No no no no NO! We’ve been over this before! It’s brooding ace fighter pilot Brodie “Broseph” Joesnthal!!
Yumi
Hey, I’m inescapably me, too!
Yotomoe
I escaped once but eventually I was recaptured.
Clif
Do you get time off from being you for good behavior?
Asking for a friend.
Yotomoe
Nope. Only for bad behavior.
not someone else
I tried very, very hard to be me for many years, wondering how I was doing it
so very wrong, until I realized the question was wrong. We’re doing a lot better now.
Cattleprod
What about Bo and Poe?
Clif
The other two of the identical Rosenthorp trips?
Nono
That first jab Joyce threw in panel 1 seems… kinda mean-spirited. I know she’s not the biggest fan re:Joe’s attitude towards casual sex, but that still feels a little low.
Sirksome
He deserves it though. As much progress as they’ve made their first interactions weren’t great. If it’s Joyce then Joe kinda has to take those hits on the chin…which is good cause Joe has a lot of chin.
Nono
Joe deserves to be told he wouldn’t recognize love?
Sirksome
The guy who had a do-list and spent the entirety of his first semester objectifying women and casually hooking up, absolutely deserves to be told that by the girl he thought deflowering would improve her desirability yes. I think so. Cause until very recently he hasn’t done anything to prove Joyce should think otherwise.
Nono
I mean, they’re friends at this point. It just seems pretty snipish. Considering the amount of heartfelt texting back and forth they did Joyce should know by now Joe’s not a heartless sex monster.
Sirksome
It’s because they’re friends now that Joe has to kind of deal with it. He’s in the red with Joyce. He may never be able to make up for it either. Cause of stuff like this.
https://www.dumbingofage.com/2017/comic/book-7/04-the-do-list/object/
So even if they end up married one day Joe’s gotta kind of hold the L. I don’t feel bad for him.
shrub
If Joe and Joyce end up married then its a good chance they’ve both put it behind them
darkgloomie
If they end up married and Joyce keeps bringing up stuff he did in college, the relationship is a fucking mess and they really should break up
Liliet
Unless it’s turned into a running gag that Joe finds endearing, which I very much expect tbh
Cerusee
This isn’t strictly speaking wrong, but god bless this comments section for its amazing consistency at catastrophizing relationship dynamics that don’t even exist yet
Reaver
Didn’t Joyce have Mike come along on their date and physically assault Joe for making her upset? Does she like never get to live that down too or just Joe gets to deal with his teenage actions forever because people don’t like them?
Orson Smelles
I think a healthy destination for Joyce *does* involve acknowledging that she harmed people before she started reflecting on her beliefs, and yeah, I think that does mean accepting it’s a part of her personal history and that people who were affected by it have a right to remember and have opinions/feelings about it.
thejeff
I think they’ve both kind of dealt with it honestly.
They both have a ways to go. Joe’s done a lot of his work internally, so it’s not surprising no one realizes he’s thinking differently now.
Vanessa
Y’all and TheJeff have some great ideas here. There is big similarity in how Joe and Joyce both have been suffering some intense character development — and no one recognizes it! Joe seems to be trying to hide how he is becoming sensitive and appreciative of sweet relationships and of Joyce as a person, while Joyce is so actively yo-yoing between lashing out and freaking out that no one can tell that SHE’s being a different person too. It’s hard to tell what they’ve been texting about given how hostile Joyce is to Joe today, but she is pretty darn hostile all around lately. Maybe they can recognize mutual struggle.
Bysmerian
You aren’t wrong. Joe did some pretty reprehensible shit early on. But on the other hand, I also think that a friendship dynamic–or any other positive personal connection–isn’t gonna be helped by that kind of low blow. If you want to hold that against him, great. It’s a reasonable stance and nobody is demanding you forgive and forget. But you don’t call that person a friend if it’s going to be at the forefront of your interactions.
Sirksome
I’m not holding his past actions against Joe, but people think this is some kind of low blow against the dude and I’m just wondering why? We know his history and their history together. It was a fair criticism to me, especially coming from Joyce who he knows he’s unintentionally hurt in the past. Joe seems to know it too since he moved on without a response.
Bysmerian
Agreed, but that pause reads like he’s not comfortable with what she said and trying to change the subject, especially when it was a personal barb directed at an innocuous comment.
It’s also, I suppose, powered in part by the reader knowledge that his womanizing ways were at least partially a defense mechanism to prevent anyone else from getting too close, as he’s afraid he might hurt them like his father has his ex-wives. It was still harmful, of course, as Joyce made very explicit.
Clif
Reread the strips leading up to his first date with Joyce. That would be a yes.
Needfuldoer
He wants to know what love is.
He wants her to show him.
ButWhyASpoon
“I’ve gotta take a little time
A little time to think things over
I better read between the lines
In case I need it when I’m older
This mountain, I must climb
Feels like a world upon my shoulders
Through the clouds, I see love shine
Keeps me warm as life grows colder
In my life, there’s been heartache and pain
I don’t know if I can face it again
Can’t stop now, I’ve traveled so far
To change this lonely life
I wanna know what love is
I want you to show me
I wanna feel what love is
I know you can show me (hey)
Gotta take a little time
Little time to look around me
I’ve got nowhere left to hide
Looks like love has finally found me
In my life, there’s been heartache and pain
I don’t know if I can face it again
Can’t stop now, I’ve traveled so far
To change this lonely life
I wanna know what love is
I want you to show me
I wanna feel what love is
I know you can show me
I wanna know what love is (I wanna know)
I want you to show me (I wanna feel)
I wanna feel what love is (I know, I know, and I know)
I know you can show me
Let’s talk about love
I wanna know what love is
(Love that you feel inside)
I want you to show me
(I’m feeling so much love)
I wanna feel what love is
(And you know, you just can’t hide)
I know you can show me
Oh, I wanna know what love is
(Let’s talk about love)
I know you can show me
(I wanna feel)
I wanna feel what love is
(And you know you just can’t hide)
I know you can show me
I wanna feel what love is (oh, I wanna know)
I want you to show me”
– Michael L. Jones
Mano308gts
So I guess we’re doing the 80s thing, then…
StClair
I’m pretty much always.
RedCat
No, he doesn’t, and it’s a pretty mean thing not just to say to ANYONE, but specifically a kid whose parents have divorced, and who apparently did not take it well.
Wack'd
Joyce doesn’t seem to notice that Joe doesn’t really make fun of her anymore, or at least tries to keep it to friendly ribbing.
Rainhat
You’re right.
Freezer
Agreed. Even if one thinks Joe has it coming (He didn’t), that’s pretty beneath Joyce to right for the moral kidney punch.
DailyBrad
It should be beneath Joyce, but it’s honestly not. She’s been pretty petty for a hot minute at this point.
I took it as more of a dry comment than her necessarily going for the jugular here, though.
darkgloomie
In fairness to Jouce, she still has her Unholy Period to deal with, with the painful cramps and heavy bleeding. She earns *some* slack for her pettiness and snippiness
Jason
It’s a fair point though. Joe’s the kind to actively proclaim he avoids love that can be described as “in love”. He has done so before (or damn close to). So… from Joyce’s perspective, how would Joe recognise being in love?
…Which might be a question with the potential to hit home particularly hard for him right now.
Rabisch
I think Joe is trying to understand what love is. That could be an explanation about why he asked to Sal why she’s with Danny just before.
thejeff
True, but it’s also true that he’s still trying to hide it, so Joyce having that perspective on him isn’t surprising.
Uly
I think she’s in a bit of a pissy mood due to… well, any of a number of things, but definitely in the mix her slight realization that she LIKES Joe and doesn’t want to. She doesn’t know what to do with this, so she’s lashing out.
shadowcell
Mecky and Wina will be fan favorites, i’m sure
Thag Simmons
Not!Dina needs another paleontological name
So like Terry ni Donnell or Carina Taur or something
Wack'd
Paris Noor O’Lophus.
Dean
Tyra Nnosaurus
Thag Simmons
Tyra Nozaras
Slartibeast Button, BIA
Is Not!Dina still obsessed with dinosaurs, or obsessed with something else?
Nono
Birds.
DailyBrad
Dina becomes Liza, I think, for Lizard.
Johan
I live for these interactions.
Stephen Bierce
On Twitter…
DAVID: Black Cherry Jim Beam tastes like cough syrup! Like nature intended.
ME: Flaming Homers in the making?
So we got a flamed Moe.
Sirksome
His name’s actually John…as of now cause she can easily edit the comic before it hits print.
Yotomoe
GOD just touch each others butts already. DAMN.
Decidedly Orthogonal
But like, somewhere we can perv on you doing it please.
PirateTawnee
Respectfully of course.
mrnoidea
The sexual tension is so high, the only way they can release it in a gradual manner is to write out a formal contract with 2 signatures, 5 spots for initials, and a buttprint scan. No actual mention of the pleasures of butt-touching, no no!
/s because I actually want butt-touching, too, secretly
Caro
“i am inescapably me” is absolutely the book title
Max
My favorite is still “SUDDEN DOROTHY!”
ButWhyASpoon
“Sudden Dorothy” is a concept for a Hatefuck Porn Comic between Dorothy and Jennifer in which Dorothy is the sexual aggressor. Jennifer can’t get away from Dorothy, because Dorothy has the deus ex machina powers of Dot from Animaniacs. You turn, and she’s there. You turn in the opposite direction, and she’s there. Dorothy can articulate how this works. She will explain it it long drawn-out ways that resemble a lecture. It is a lecture that Jennifer cannot escape, no matter where she runs. Dorothy is Omnipotent but usually doesn’t make a fuss about it.
Miri
She has a flip chart presentation prepared and a pointer and everything!
Bathymetheus