The Dumbing of Age Book 12 Kickstarter is live! And tonight we're under $1k away from unlocking HALLOWEEN magnets! Normal thing
The Dumbing of Age Book 12 Kickstarter is live! And tonight we're under $1k away from unlocking HALLOWEEN magnets!
261 thoughts on “Normal thing”
Ana Chronistic
I would say something about Walky’s question but idk if I’m at liberty to disclose other people’s deets like that even anonymously (bc, you can kinda trace who I’m talking about with like five minutes of work)
strangely wise April Fool post tho??
Decidedly Orthogonal
If they’ve shared it on the internet, there’s no reasonable expectation of privacy of the salient information. But if it’s something you *happen* to personally know, then yeah, keeping a lid on it is definitely the moral action. ?
JepMZ
They’re fictional characters
Decidedly Orthogonal
Pretty sure Ana is referencing how Walky’s question reflects on a real life person. Like 99.64% sure.
Kazuma Taichi
I’d say 99.83%, personally
Ana Chronistic
it’s actually multiples but also yeah, not my deets to share
Pergola
And anything you do to a fictional character is OK. Like you’d -never ever- do it to a real person.
DarkoNeko
eeeh. Surprisingly sound advice.
Sirksome
It is that simple. Tell Lucy to take a cold shower.
anon
does that even work the same way? i feel like a cold shower wouldn’t help me but i prefer the cold overheat lol
Adept
Why though? What’s wrong with her wanting to have a sexual experience?
shoopdawhoop
What’s wrong with Walky not wanting that?
Adept
Is that the issue here? Nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex. I though people are saying Lucy shouldn’t want it. If Walky doesn’t want to have sex with her, then he of course shouldn’t. She’ll be disappointed, but there’s plenty of that in the world. It kind of can’t be helped.
anon
it probably would be best to talk it out/go slower or so, though the ‘third date’ is a stereotypical expectation for stuff (which i also thought was too fast but sometimes it’s either horny teenagers or adults that have already been around the block a few times and willing to be closer, but ppl should go at their own pace.)
have we even seen lucy and walky kiss, let hardcore making out? Tho i suppose they could also do some stuff that’s more ‘sexual’ but not full on penetration or so
thejeff
That was I think the last suggestion and I’d be all for that approach, if it wasn’t all happening under inadvertent false premises.
thejeff
Nothing.
But there might be future problems if she’s only willing to go that far because she thinks Walky’s said he’s in love with her.
Adept
Uh… we’re talking about university freshmen here. I know everything’s super dramatic when one is eighteen, but even so. Just… relax and live a little kids.
shadowcell
Dumbing of Age Book 13: If You’re Not Ready, You’re Not Ready
Victor Riley
I’d vote more for “Well, That’s a Normal Thing to Say”
Sibre
How about “And Joe?!”
Mr. Random
At some point, you gotta be sure if fear’s the only thing holding you back.
Or if you’re genuinely feeling uncomfortable.
Bryy
Good for you, Dorothy.
Also please god unlock those Halloween Magnets.
NGPZ
You gotta call Cthulhu by name bruh XD
morleuca
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Needfuldoer
The book Kickstarter activity always follows a bathtub curve. The first couple days see a surge of activity, then there’s a lull for a couple weeks, then they pick back up at the end.
There will be more magnets.
Just an Armadillo
And if you are, you are.
Maybe ponder on that part for a bit, Dorothy.
Lumino
How dare you use her own words against her.
Just an Armadillo
She’s making it very easy right now. I know she’s going through a serious emotional upheaval but that doesn’t change the fact that her attitude towards basically everything right now is kinda gross.
Uly
Yup.
Decidedly Orthogonal
People love climbing all over Dotty for opening her mouth. Is she perfect? Nope, no one is. Bear in mind, Walkerton asked for her advice. Also worth a ponder.
cain
I think Armadillo is referencing Joyce being ready for a sexual experience and Dorothy trying to convince her she isn’t.
cbwroses
Never crossed my mind that she went to Joyce to keep her from trying to use the Walking Stick.
Concolor44
Bwahahahaha!
The Walking Stick helps her get where she wants to go.
It’s a travel aid. That’s all.
ValdVin
“Without my walking stick, I’d go insane
I can’t look my best I feel undressed without my cane.”
(Irving Berlin has written a song about everything.)
StClair
Joyce is ready, but will Dorothy be able to accept that?
Especially when the person Joyce is ready for is Joe?
Archieve
Doesn’t seem like it, she clearly did the dryer “lesson” mainly to stop Joyce from getting with a real guy. Even if she personally dislikes Joe I think there’s also a bit of truth to what Roz said about her upholding the status que, she doesn’t like it when Joyce shows change.
Jenn
…. I think it was to stop her from getting with Joe specifically. Dorothy has history with Joe. I don’t think she would have cared as much if Joyce was interested in some other guy that Dorothy didn’t disapprove of.
jpnr
but realistically who? who would Dorothy accept as Joyce’s boyfriend?
….Danny?
Council
Sal doesn’t accept Danny as a boyfriend. And he’s her boyfriend!
thejeff
She was fine with Ethan, until she learned he was gay. The only objection to Jacob is that he was already dating someone else.
Her issue with Joe is specific to Joe and I think she’ll be fine with him if she’s ever given any real reason to think he’s changed.
Joy
This. I feel like people act like Dorothy (or Jennifer tbh) are way more unreasonable than they are.
Bryy
Eeeeeeeeh, I think protecting Joyce Hardcore is one of Dorothy’s trauma responses.
Archieve
Agree, she wasn’t initially this hard-core with making sure Joyce was taken care of before the bad dad arc.
pickonecard
honestly, good advice from Dorothy.
UrsulaDavina
Good advice bad intentions like someone needs to stop Dotty now.
Jamie
Which bad decision would you prefer she go for? Wrecking WalkyxLucy or wrecking JoycexJoe? Like, I don’t think she’ll manage either, but it’s kinda 50/50 which one she’s swinging at in a given moment.
jflb96
Wrecking LucyxWalky is at least halfway done already by Lucy and Walky, so that seems better
Wereg
Solid advice in panel 4, but I swan to john I will explode if Dorothy goes to badger Joyce for hanging out with Joe.
Sirksome
I do find it kind of funny Joe may have just cock blocked Walky here. I’m assuming that Dorothy was coming to 100% try and throw some ass Walky’s way until Joe was mentioned.
Just an Armadillo
You say it’s funny, I say it’s a relief. I did not want to see that conversation happen regardless of how it ended.
poofdepoof
Same
Sirksome
This just delays things. There’s a love triangle blooming, and it’s best to clear the air as soon as possible before people get hurt worse. One awkward conversation now is better than an argument later.
Belegcam
Is it really a love triangle, though? Seems like the attraction on the Dorothy/Walky axis is decidedly one-way.
Sirksome
It’s a Dorothy/Walky/Lucy love triangle. Walky is dating Lucy but clearly still cares about Dorothy who still has feelings for him as well. There’s three people who will be effected although I guess it’s more like a love “V” if you want to be technical. It still counts as a triangle though.
SDRainbow
I would say the classic definition of a love triangle is, in fact, a Love V, given that most media historically hasn’t allowed for the existence of non-straight folks.
ACTUAL love triangles would be much more interesting. Dare I hope for Dorothy/Lucy sapphic shenanigans?
zee
The only REAL love triangle was written by Shakespeare and everything after that is disappointing
Needfuldoer
Love stinks.
Yeah, yeah.
Belegcam
My feeling is that he cares about her as a friend, not a romantic partner, but it’s certainly possible that my take on this is way off. Of course, part of the problem here may be that Walky’s idea of what is and isn’t a romantic relationship is similarly off.
Jamie
I think it’s a love bowtie. You know. Two triangles with an intersecting vertex.
Jay
Walky/Dorothy, Joyce/Dorothy, Lucy/Dorothy, Joe/Dorothy? Except that last edge has sunk into abyssal mud while still being on fire.
Yotomoe
Oh no, Joe’s greatest fear realized!
Shorduie
It is funny how the smallest things change fate. Dorothy went there to do something stupid and it would be probably very messy drama, but some casual information from Walky and she is back to her old protective self (and maybe also full of drama, who knows)
Shorduie
The last phrase is weird. I meant that she probably still in a road that leads to drama, but hopefully not
SeanR
Why? It made perfect sense.
Dorothy’s full of Drama. In another world, she might possess a #Drama tag, but in this one, she’s just full of it.
Also, sorry for accidentally flagging you. Purely my fault for getting lazy and lazily targeting the Reply link by color. Too bad there isn’t either a take-back option, or a “are you sure?” popup. Maybe even a CAPTCHA.
Shorduie
Dont sweat it 🙂
Also yeah, she really is full of drana
Archieve
I’d say she’s being more overbearing then truly protective here, Joyce made it clear she wanted to see him and Dorothy can’t accept that she’s going through with it despite her meddling. If she does storm in on them it will just be a different kind of drama.
Bryy
Yeah, it’s extremely hypocritical, especially given how self-aware she is.
RassilonTDavros
Dorothy hears that Joyce is still with Joe and immediately starts running off to confront him. This can only lead to good things!
…April Fools.
Archieve
Can’t make bad life decisions if she’s hyperfocused on sombody else’s life! No chance for resentment there at all.
Stephen Bierce
Aha moment. Meanwhile, I was looking at scans of board games and came across an edition of The Game of Life that had a step that went “You Are Elected President!” I wonder if Dorothy got to play that as a girl.
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