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411 thoughts on “Sabbatical”
JA
Lit night.
Reltzik
Nah, a lit night is getting blitzed on hot toddies at an evening poetry slam.
Decidedly Orthogonal
#dranks reads like poetry to me.
Icalasari
#dranks
StClair
poor Becky.
Taigan
Becky is like “if Joyce is gonna start drunkenly making out with a girl, it should be me!”
Doctor_Who
“Or at least Sal. I could respect it if it were Sal.”
Warcodered
It’s not just that though, Joyce goes out and drinks for the first time, and doesn’t take Becky her childhood best friend but takes Dorothy. Even without the whole romantic angle, platonic best friends in that situation could be jealous.
Sirksome
Why? She has a hot girlfriend right behind her.
StClair
yes, but tell that to her heart.
BarerMender
“Hot girlfriend” vs. “love of my life.” Yeah, hot girlfriend will never fill the gap.
Sirksome
Kind of awkward considering Becks and Dina are essentially fiancés or pre-engaged? Is that a thing? Joyce is just a first crush. Although I suppose even with Joe, Joyce still isn’t fully over her first crush either.
BarerMender
Pretty cavalier, calling the love that got Becky through her awful childhood a “first crush.”
DaisyFM
Sal, that’s a generic black v-neck shirt.
DaisyFM
Uh, this wasn’t meant to be a reply. Oops???
Mturtle7
Yeah, but Sal knows damn well that the only way Joyce would have a shirt like that is if she stole Sal’s! Deductive reasoning in action, sir.
Seralyna
I mean you also were being pretty dismissive of the actual meaningful relationship with a person she loves that she is in as well. Seems only fair.
Sirksome
Is there another term for it? I’m sincerely asking because from my perspective Becky has an unrequited attraction to Joyce from her childhood she’s effectively moved mostly on from. Does that not define a crush? I honestly wasn’t trying to be cavalier but I don’t know what to call it. Pining? Longing? Yearning? Like she’s still with Dina and has expressed love for her, yet is still wants to be with Joyce. I don’t know the term for unrequited feelings.
Allen Alberti
no, you had it right.
Tan
It’s cavalier, but it’s also true. It’s her first crush. And that’s super-hard to get over when it’s also someone you have a deep and lasting non-romantic connection with, as those feelings don’t just disentangle however much you may consciously want them to.
Johnny Posadas
“we’re pre-engaged” means “we are going to break up eventually and it is going to be messy”
Karla Jean
Becky and Dina aren’t “pre-engaged,” they’re teenagers in their first relationships who have been dating a few months.
Leorale
Everyone in the comments that I’ve read so far is reading this as purely romantic jealousy. I read it as also jealousy over her Best Friend status, and her Best Friend In Christ status. Becky has many feels.
Mark
Yeah, looks like “we used to get silly together like that, and I miss it.”
Allen Alberti
this is the correct take, in my humble opinion.
Zaxares
Becky is very obviously still carrying a torch for Joyce, but she understands that Joyce is not lesbian and so reluctantly accepts that their love can never be, not in the way she wants. But this kind of love is not something that you can let go of; I am of the belief that if you love someone, truly, utterly love someone, you will ALWAYS love them. No circumstances, no pesky logic, will ever stop you loving them. And that’s the way it is with Becky’s feelings towards Joyce.
Don’t get me wrong, I think Becky does love Dina and will likely be very happy with her. But a part of her heart will always belong to Joyce and wonder what it would have been like if things were different.
Thag Simmons
Not entirely sure how I should read that expression.
Puppeteer Nessus
Worry for Joyce, maybe. Or FOMO
Needfuldoer
Both?
Both is good.
Golden Yak
“Joyce and Dotty having a drunken make-out? …dang but if that ain’t super hot.” *chews lip*
AlexaSpuds
A mix of thinking Joyce looks hella hot, and jealousy of Dorothy because Becky knows that Joyce is the type of gal who’s likely to drunkenly makeout with her girl friends.
Coatl
I don’t know, this expression is like a mix between minimal jealousy and perplexed, but it’s obvious that it’s going to require an explanation for the next day.
Imogen
“Why am I upset? I’m not upset. I have no reason to be upset. I just think Joyce might be being unsafe. I just think Dorothy shouldn’t be doing this behind my back. I just think nothing at all about this i’m FINE I’M NOT JEALOUS WHY WOULD I BE”
staszu13
Truth
anon
And maybe concern b/c she actually knows Dorothy isn’t going to yale and she doesn’t know if joycei s gonna be told at this bar lol
Coatl
That’s why I say that all this will bring 50/50 results.
Heavensrun
Lot of people reading it as jealousy, I’d clock it as genuine concern. Remember, Becky’s still pretty goody-goody.
Coatl
Well, we want drama, it is inevitable to interpret it that way
Qube
she is experiencing Emotions
Comic.phile
Becky is hurt by Joyce continuing to move away from their old shared faith, I think. And I think she knows that her struggle to accept New Joyce is why they aren’t as close friends as they used to be, but that only makes her feel more upset about it.
Sirksome
Did Walky call something? I don’t remember it if he did.
Reltzik
I think everyone (well, at least Walky and Becky) are interpreting this as a Jotty hookup.
…. is the ship called Jotty? I know it’s been around for too long for it not to have a name and I doubt that name’s Jotty. Oh well, I’m going to call it Jotty until someone corrects me.
mick4state
Joyrothy?
BarerMender
Doyce?
Mano308gts
Doythy, the worst possible combination. XD
JA
I’m torn between this and Doyce.
Ac
Aw i like Joyathy
Heavensrun
I call it Joyrathy, myself. She be a fine ship, and I aim to sail her as long as she’ll stay afloat.
Rabbit
Why on earth is that what they’d be interpreting? Becky I can squint and See… but Walky? He and Dotty had a whole convo about her feeling all fucked up, remember?
I don’t think he’s ‘calling’ that his ex is gonna hook up with Joyce.
Qlx
I’m confused about what Amber means by her line in this strip. Is she feeling like amazi girl needs to go keep an eye on them?
Aura
Amazigirl has a track record of being anti-underage drinking.
zee
Cringe. Cop behavior. I always took that as just looking for an excuse to beat sal I mean more random people up
Mturtle7
Amazi-Girl has explained to quite a few people, at great length, that her obsessive adherence to the letter of the law is actually meant to PREVENT her (or really, Amber) from beating random people up. The system as a whole is convinced at all that if Amazi-Girl doesn’t have a healthy, strictly regulated outlet for violence, then Amber will turn full supervillain and Do Bad Things.
And like, she’s never indicated a desire to actually beat people up just for underage drinking. She just kinda yells at people about it. I’m pretty sure the most she would do is tattle on them, and/or steal their booze to pour down the sink, maybe.
Mturtle7
To be clear, I’m not actually agreeing with AG here! It absolutely IS cringe and 100% cop behavior, but at least she has her reasons, and her limits.
Comic.phile
I don’t think Jennifer, Joe, and Sal see it that way.
BarerMender
Walky has been speaking for ages about how much Joyce wants Dorothy. I.e., “Lez out, already.”
anon
he did tease joyce a lot about it and ask becky something like “does she treat all her female friends like she wants to go down on them or just dorothy”
lyzyrdwyzyrd
A long time ago he referred to Joyce as bisexual and someone said no she is straight and he just laughed.
Li
Either there were two incidents and I’m not remembering one or you’re misremembering when Lucy described Joyce as a white bisexual version of her, which delighted Walky so much that he said he loved her between snickers.
deliverything
To save people searching: https://www.dumbingofage.com/2019/comic/book-9-comic/04-vote-for-robin/proselytize/
I mean, for the one Li mentioned. Without knowing who the “someone” in lyzyrdwyzyrd’s comment is, it would take too long to search.
DorJoJo
Joe is proud of his qt ex-fundie gf
StClair
look at that face (faaaaaaace). he’s got it bad.
(I love him.)
Needfuldoer
Can you blame him?
JA
Now that’s a meme I’ve not seen in a long time.
BarerMender
I read it as Joe is happy to see his girl having fun, but he’s worried she isn’t his girl, anymore.
Rabbit
The fact that everyone is acting like Joe is jealous of Dorothy romantically is really fucking weird to me if I’m being 100%
Joyce has openly expressed some variant of attraction/longing/lust towards Joe very very recently. Joe is the person she turned to with all her fundamentalist stuff and discovering herself and had that friendship with. I think he’s just proud of her? Maybe a bit worried bc of all the past stuff she went through, if anything.
Like I get that Dotty/Joyce is a popular ship, but every second comment I’ve seen both here and in one of my discords is about how he’s totally jealous of Dorothy.
Julie
I can’t fucking stand the Joyce/Dorothy shipping because of how solidly into Joe Joyce clearly is. Like, I’m queer too and I want to see more ladies hooking up with other ladies, but also people are allowed to be in committed opposite-gender relationships??? And happy about it???
Rabbit
Same. I’m Bi, I’ve dated men, women and a variety of others- and Joyce is so clearly into Joe. And I even read her as maybe a little bi-curious or bi generally at times (though I do think a big part of it is the fact she grew up with Becky skewing her idea of platonic relationships) and people interpreting any non-selfish acts of kindness as romantic.
The more confusing part for me, is that even though there are tons of jokes- Dorothy has never come across to me as anything but straight. Even in the Joyce Getting Birth Control segment with the older lesbians mistaking them as a couple, it just felt… kind of weird? The whole segment felt like Dorothy doing the mom-friend thing and Billie even got all annoyed w/ her about it.
So having it skewed into a joke about the women thinking they were into eachother felt weird.
It’s annoying to even have to disclaimer this with me being queer/bi but I get some people criticize wlw ships for bad purposes. But like, I like plenty of the other ships in this comic, even as a hardcore Joe/Joyce shipper I kind of liked Sal/Joyce at one point if only because the dynamic was cute.
But like, Carla/Charlie or Carla/Malaya? Marcie and her unrequited Sal crush and then Marcie and Malaya? Dina and Becky? (The last one I’m not super fond of but it’s mostly because of the fact that Dina is kind of Becky’s rebound, and I kinda saw that when they got together so now it just feels like a matter of time)
and the worst part is that I *like* Dorothy a lot as a character, even if recently I’ve had less interest in her. I just don’t get the need of every other comment to insist this is gonna end in a makeout session when it clearly feels more like she’s gonna end up venting about Tristan/her old crush/ some of the fundie stuff which is WAY more interesting then a borderline ooc drunk smooch to me.
Julie
100% to everything you said. It would be completely out of character for Joyce to cheat on Joe.
Sirksome
I’m a Joyce x Dorothy shipper and at least for me it’s just a fun concept mostly because of how unlikely it is in the current status. Joyce is in a committed relationship to Joe and already stated in a conversation with Dorothy that lead to this exact scenario that she won’t cheat or more accurately participate in an orgy because she’s faithful.
That being said I think it’s kind of in bad faith to say there’s nothing there. I can understand frustration with the shippers but the story does go out of its way to plant seed and hints from both girls. Dorothy the most resolutely straight one, has had bouts of jealousy, lead a masturbation lesson, and had vaguely homoerotic dreams featuring Joyce. Considering sexuality can be very fluid and even circumstantial to specific scenarios as varied as humans themselves I don’t blame anyone for seeing it even if they will likely ever happen. Personally I see it happening when they’re two retired widowers finally admitting there was something and spending their twilight years in a cute, domestic, situationship. Becky will still be jealous.
Rabbit
>it’s kind of in bad faith to say there’s nothing there.
First, that’s not what bad faith means, bad faith means with intent to deceive – and second It’s not. It’s just a different opinion.
I’ve read through this comic multiple times, and most of the vaguely homoerotic stuff you mention, (at least the actual things that happen and not the horse dream), feels ooc on one level or another, or at least to me- dorothy doesn’t read as being into any of it.
Like everything with Dorothy and the laundry machine thing felt so weird and creepy to me (and quite a few other people in the comments section) on Dorothy’s part, and kind of weird on Joyce’s given everything she had been saying prior to it.
I can say there is nothing there because I truly see nothing there. You see something I don’t, and that’s fine. But most of the hints feel vague or joking at best, and it’s never something I’ve seen any actual indication from Dorothy on, being one of the most explicitly stated and up until semi-recently acting fairly ‘straight’. I don’t care if Dorothy is straight or not, but she hasn’t really done anything that’s pinged for me as a queer person.
Not to mention, I do believe Joyce to at least be bi-curious. That does not mean she needs to have a WLW relationship to make it real, either and I am so beyond done with stories doing that (granted it’s not in mainstream media, it’s a lot of comic/webcomic/fandom shit)
I also think exploring queerness through Joyce learning things and trying to figure out what is or isn’t in her spectrum of attraction, or if her view of platonic female normalcy was skewed by Becky (as has been suggested in-comic also multiple times iirc)
Either way, I don’t care if Dotty dates a girl, I just genuinely don’t think that girl is Joyce, nor should it be. If anything I think Dot had more chemistry in her weird Lois Lane/Superman thing with Amber/Amazigirl.
Sirksome
@Rabbit. Fair enough, and sure I likely used “bad faith” in the wrong context if that’s a problem. I should have said I believe your opinion ignores what I believe to be at least intentional teases. Not that the occasional crumb of ship bait will actually lead to romantic resolution in any way.
Lots of this comic is left up to personal interpretation. I personally get frustrated when anyone excuses Walky’s teasing of Joyce as acceptable because they’re “sibling coded” when I feel like he often crosses a line or fires off either unprovoked or unequal in intensity. (Just my example. I try not to blame people for liking it)
TerribleTransit
While Dorothy is definitely predominately straight, you can’t really look at Chekhov’s Mildly Homoerotic Horse Dream (called out immediately after as being such) sitting on the mantle and say there’s nothing there. And that’s not the only time Dorothy’s potential latent feelings for Joyce have been alluded to. Even if you read her actions as completely, totally straight, there’s a lot of narrative weight telling us another shoe is gonna drop, and now seems like the perfect time.
That’s not to say it will result in reciprocal making out or cheating, though