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Off-putting

Posted on May 27, 2023 by David M Willis

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Discussion (123) - “Off-putting”

  1. Ana Chronistic

    05/27/2023, 12:02 am
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    Carol does sound like she needs a handler

    1. Ana Chronistic

      05/27/2023, 12:03 am
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      also, lest you forgot

      1. Decidedly Orthogonal

        05/27/2023, 10:04 pm
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        But does Sarah have the guts to kill Karol? Because dropping that load on her before ending her would be a hilarious twist on turning the knife before it even entered.

    2. NGPZ

      05/27/2023, 12:03 am
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      YUUUUUUUPPP

      Joyce is making a huge mistake not having Sarah by her side, really

      1. Angel

        05/27/2023, 12:15 am
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        depends on how much sarah was joking in the last panel, while some parents are probably used to seeing friends tease each other (tho idk how many ppl would be bold enough to do it in front of other ppl’s parents because i’m sure there are ppl that are like “oh they’re a bad influence, don’t hang out around them anymore” or “this is clearly bullying disguised as teasing because i saw this happen to me when i was younger”, but if she did drop that bombshell it’d def add fuel to the fire so to speak)

        1. Bicycle Bill

          05/27/2023, 12:33 am

          I don’t think Sarah was joking.  In fact, she’d probably say something like that just for the LOLs she’d get out of watching Carol go into a China Syndrome meltdown.

        2. NGPZ

          05/27/2023, 1:14 am

          Pika pika? What is a “China Syndrome Meltdown”?

        3. Ryan

          05/27/2023, 1:39 am

          The China Syndrome (1979) with Jane Fonda, Jack Lemmon, Michael Douglas.

          I haven’t actually seen it, so I can’t say more.

        4. Ryan

          05/27/2023, 1:51 am

          Or, I could bother to read the tag line: “A reporter finds what appears to be a cover-up of safety hazards at a nuclear power plant.”

          I assumed an emotional meltdown in the movie instead of literal.

        5. Bicycle Bill

          05/27/2023, 2:07 am

          ‘China syndrome’ is a fanciful term that describes a fictional result of a nuclear meltdown, where reactor components melt through their containment structures and into the underlying earth, “all the way to China”

        6. Enkrod

          05/27/2023, 2:09 am

          It’s one form of a maximum credible accident in a nuclear plant.

          When a nuclear reactor overheats to the point that it melts, it’s called a meltdown, at that point there is no stopping the runaway nuclear reaction, because you cant separate the uranium into sub-critical piles anymore. In some cases, this super hot highly radioactive blob of melted uranium might slowly melt its way through the bottom of its container and all the way down until it reaches ground water (in that case a steam explosion will happen) or basically into the core of the earth. It’s like it’s trying to dig a tunnel through the earth to china, hence “china syndrome”.

        7. Angel

          05/27/2023, 2:28 am

          well we never saw the other side/reaction but i think the only ‘offensive’ thing sarah did was answer teh phone and yell ‘fuck off!’ to who(m)ever was on the other end and then the storyline neded or so

        8. thejeff

          05/27/2023, 9:15 am

          Not quite joking I think. She absolutely wouldn’t have done it, but it’s her usual style of sincerely offering support then walking it back with a joke when she’s not taken up on it.

  2. Ray Radlein

    05/27/2023, 12:03 am
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    That’s what fiends are for

    1. True Survivor

      05/27/2023, 12:10 am
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      They’ll stick with you through hell.

      1. Azhrei Vep

        05/27/2023, 9:44 am
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        Even if they have to take your there themselves.

    2. milu

      05/27/2023, 10:09 am
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      Fiends are very similar to friends, orthographically

    3. Furie

      05/27/2023, 5:40 pm
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      Weird circle jerks?

  3. Yotomoe

    05/27/2023, 12:03 am
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    I’d like to believe that Sarah wouldn’t do that.

    1. Thag Simmons

      05/27/2023, 12:06 am
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      She thinks it’s funny to joke about but I can’t imagine her actually knowingly endangering a friend like that.

      1. DailyBrad

        05/27/2023, 12:22 am
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        Yeah, she’s probably being facetious, both since she would, anyway, and also probably as a way of acknowledging a line had been crossed earlier. This functions both as a joke at Joyce’s expense, sure, but also at her own for her lack of tact.

      2. Ophidiophile

        05/27/2023, 3:12 am
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        More importantly, is this the most sarcastic response Joyce has made? I think Sarah is rubbing off on her.

        1. Needfuldoer

          05/27/2023, 4:20 am

          Phrasing

        2. GholaHalleck

          05/27/2023, 10:56 am

          Sarah wakes up with hung over with a dryer sheet stuck to her face

        3. Ophidiophile

          05/27/2023, 4:24 pm

          Doh.

      3. temporaryobsessor

        05/27/2023, 7:52 am
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        I don’t think Carol would point a gun at Joyce, but…

        1. GholaHalleck

          05/27/2023, 10:57 am

          But she *did* help bail out someone who did.

        2. temporaryobsessor

          05/27/2023, 4:33 pm

          Exactly; and her logic wasn’t even Christian forgiveness gone mad.

    2. RassilonTDavros

      05/27/2023, 12:07 am
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      I don’t think Sarah was being entirely serious there, no. I do think, however, that it’s sort of a tacit admission that she would have no actual idea of how to help Joyce in this situation– that is, the necessary tactics aren’t in her playbook.

    3. Angel

      05/27/2023, 12:21 am
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      she’d probably make some vague jokes about it but i’m sure there’s anecdotes of friends hanging around parents and making innocuous statements that somehow gets them in trouble

    4. HueSatLight

      05/27/2023, 12:27 am
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      Pretty sure it’s her doing an appropriate level of teasing. like here. It’s a little obscure, but later Joyce accidentally outed herself as an atheist to Becky, and Sarah didn’t find it amusing.

    5. Reltzik

      05/27/2023, 12:46 am
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      She’d like you to believe that she would. … because I think she feels the need to earn some cred back after being supportive for a second. … or maybe she’s self-conscious about that sort of thing after Lucy called her out on it a minute ago.

    6. Orange Lantern

      05/30/2023, 7:16 am
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      Depends if she’s a good friend or a best friend.

      Good friends bail you out of jail. Your best friends wakes up in your cell next to you going „what a night, huh?“.

      You have to accept that as part of the deal for someone who would be going through hellfire for you.

  4. UrsulaDavina

    05/27/2023, 12:04 am
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    I mean maybe she’d say that to maker Carol have a heart attack.

    1. Puppeteer Nessus

      05/27/2023, 12:07 am
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      I’m betting Joyce says it to maker her mother go away

      1. Archieve

        05/27/2023, 12:12 am
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        Wouldn’t necessarily work, Carol has denied that Ross hurt anybody and that she ever curses…right after both of those things happened. She have serious self delusion if she believes Joyce would never do it she might actually be incapable of being convinced otherwise

        1. Mark

          05/27/2023, 7:54 am

          I re-read that strip the other day, and I think she’s right about not cursing: she’s not calling for someone to be damned; she thinks it’s a done deal.

          Not that that makes her attitude any nicer.

      2. Needfuldoer

        05/27/2023, 4:22 am
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        Carol doesn’t go away, she doubles down.

    2. Suzi

      05/27/2023, 12:10 am
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      Sarah loves to help in the most chaots inducing way possible.

  5. RassilonTDavros

    05/27/2023, 12:05 am
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    Oh boy I can hardly wait for the needlessly personal Sarah hate comments we’re about to get

    1. True Survivor

      05/27/2023, 12:12 am
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      Yeah her hat is the wrong shade of green. What a looser.

    2. aelfwine

      05/27/2023, 10:29 am
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      I don’t see any in the thread. Prediction failed?

      1. Sombrero

        05/27/2023, 2:04 pm
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        It’s called the Carol Effect. It’s like a black hole of hate. No hate can escape when Carol is around, all get stuck within her, even hate comments.

  6. Mollyscribbles

    05/27/2023, 12:06 am
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    To be fair, Carol’s reaction would be hilarious. For us, not Joyce.

    1. Needfuldoer

      05/27/2023, 4:22 am
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      Someday we’ll get the Carol version of the Shocked Joyce Face.

      Someday.

  7. NGPZ

    05/27/2023, 12:06 am
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    BTW less than 12 hours now to cast your vote for Dina in the Autistic Girlies Bracket on Tumblr! She’s in the lead!!! WAHOOOO!!!! ?

    https://www.tumblr.com/autisticgirliesbracket/717861569237794816/autistic-girlies-bracket-round-1-side-a

    1. Devin

      05/27/2023, 1:46 am
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      Dina took the lead after Willis reblogged it and it’s only grown since then. I like Dina’s chances, but this is only round one. And have you seen the rest of the polls in the bracket? This is gonna be a wild ride.

      1. NGPZ

        05/27/2023, 2:10 am
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        Hell yeah!!!! Reagan Ridley from Netflix’s Inside Job is on Side B, I’M STIMMING SO MUCH YEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!

  8. shadowcell

    05/27/2023, 12:06 am
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    Mike would’ve done it

    for a nickel

    1. shadowcell

      05/27/2023, 12:14 am
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      y’know i feel like with 25-odd years of inflation Mike would presume your mom has raised her prices by now so maybe it would be two nickels

      1. milu

        05/27/2023, 10:16 am
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        with 25-odd years of inflation

        Mike’s tastes are very specific and stable.

        1. milu

          05/27/2023, 10:17 am

          (Do fetishes carry over between verses?)

      2. vulcanodon

        05/27/2023, 12:05 pm
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        I feel that Mike would probably keep his price consistent, like Arizona Tea. As a statement, y’know?

        1. Ana Chronistic

          05/27/2023, 11:59 pm

          He would’ve reduced to a penny out of spite but it’s not as funny to say penny

  9. Imogen

    05/27/2023, 12:07 am
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    I love these two.

    (People are probably going to choose to take Sarah literally here so they can get mad at her, but, like… I don’t. Sarah does tell jokes, you know.)

    1. Stevonnie

      05/27/2023, 12:13 am
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      Totally agreed!

  10. Yumi

    05/27/2023, 12:07 am
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    Oh god, how would you even figure out the funniest possible moment for that, like yeah, this one’s good, but what if there’s an even better setup later? It’s a real conundrum.

    1. MM

      05/27/2023, 12:11 am
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      Mike would’ve known.

    2. Angel

      05/27/2023, 12:18 am
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      probably sometime in between lunch and carol starting to proselytize or so

      1. Proxiehunter

        05/27/2023, 12:42 am
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        If they were somehow to wind up in the same restaurant as Walky, Lucy, and Walky’s parents are eating lunch so they can hear the fallout that would be the funniest time.

    3. Yotomoe

      05/27/2023, 12:21 am
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      “Hold on while I hold this fabrige egg and take a LONG smooth swig from this glass of water”

      1. eh, whatever

        05/27/2023, 5:46 am
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        Fabergé

        1. Yotomoe

          05/27/2023, 10:00 am

          Gesundheit

    4. Mark

      05/27/2023, 7:57 am
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      Never look back.

  11. k

    05/27/2023, 12:22 am
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    Welp. Here’s hoping that Joe sees them through the window or something and decides to join Joyce, since she’s probably texted him all about her issues with Carol and the divorce.

    1. Angel

      05/27/2023, 12:24 am
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      i imagine they were going to eat lunch together that day anyways unless joe had previous plans/class

      1. Proxiehunter

        05/27/2023, 12:43 am
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        At the same place Walky’s going to wind up with Linda, Charles, and Lucy?

        1. Needfuldoer

          05/27/2023, 5:32 am

          Yes… ha ha! YES!

  12. DailyBrad

    05/27/2023, 12:24 am
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    I wonder if Joe will show up, and if he does, if he’ll try to cover for her and maybe even try to pretend at being Christian for it.

    “I’m your daughter’s boyfriend, Joe… Rogerson….”

    I doubt Joyce would let him, but it’d admittedly probably lead to some great punchlines.

    1. DailyBrad

      05/27/2023, 12:28 am
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      On the off chance anyone needs it spelled out: I thiiink Rosenthal’s a German-origin surname that’s not necessarily Jewish, but if you were going to encounter that surname in the US, there would be a very high probability of Jewishness, or at least, that would be the immediate assumption, similar to not every person with the surname Schwartz being Jewish, but again, it’d be a probable assumption, especially to someone like Carol.

      1. Kimi

        05/27/2023, 2:17 am
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        I was someone that needed that spelled out because I had absolutely no idea. I don’t know if that is a good thing or a bad thing on my part.

    2. Jamie

      05/27/2023, 3:38 pm
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      Son of the Rogering.

  13. Pocky

    05/27/2023, 12:38 am
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    turn around, and she’s out of there

    like batman

    1. butting

      05/27/2023, 11:07 am
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      Actual cannibal

      Carol Brown

  14. BBCC

    05/27/2023, 12:48 am
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    Oh BULLSHIT ya were, Sarah. Your face in panel 3 says else wise.

  15. Reltzik

    05/27/2023, 12:48 am
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    Joyce is putting on a brave face right now, but she clearly feels like she’s peaked and is on the downward slope. Her best days are over, and she’s such a has-bin.

    1. Kagimizu

      05/27/2023, 1:04 am
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      Get out. Get. Out.

      If this were Reddit I would be giving an angry upvote. Instead I can only give anger.

    2. NGPZ

      05/27/2023, 1:13 am
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      Wait what do you mean? I don’t quite see where you’re coming from, maybe your wording if off? :confused_pikachu_face:

      1. Yotomoe

        05/27/2023, 1:20 am
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        She Has Bin. In her hands. She has it. A bin. She has a bin. And it’s a homophone with Has-Been.

        1. NGPZ

          05/27/2023, 2:31 am

          XD

        2. Allison Branford

          05/27/2023, 6:18 am

          This has been a great pun, with liner notes.

    3. milu

      05/27/2023, 10:29 am
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      *Boos while applauding while choking with laughter while racking brain for “yes, and” while realizing nothing will possibly measure up*

  16. SDRainbow

    05/27/2023, 12:51 am
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    I don’t know what’s going on with Sarah’s body language in the final panel but it is hilarious

    1. milu

      05/27/2023, 10:32 am
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      Her lower body is leaving as fast as it can while her upper body is unable to resist dropping some parting snark

  17. Dara

    05/27/2023, 12:54 am
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    1: Sarah knows about that?

    2: Sarah should start packing a cattle prod and loan it out as necessary. I think in this instance that it is necessary.

    1. TerribleTransit

      05/27/2023, 1:06 am
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      Sarah doesn’t know all the details but she knows some weird masturbatory stuff went down

  18. C.T. Phipps

    05/27/2023, 1:08 am
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    Watch Carol reveal she’s an atheist and just enjoys the racist community. Hank and Becky are the only actual believers.

  19. TerribleTransit

    05/27/2023, 1:09 am
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    *glances at tags*

    Sal looking a little off-model today. Acting kinda strange too.

    1. Yotomoe

      05/27/2023, 1:18 am
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      Also I swear she’s been raiding Sarah’s closet….has anyone seen Sarah lately?

  20. Yotomoe

    05/27/2023, 1:18 am
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    My evil desire is that Joe does join them but a newly single Carol swoons a little over Joyce’s Handsome boyfriend and is too distracted by how hunky he is to be a pill towards Joyce.

  21. Devin

    05/27/2023, 1:40 am
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    Come on Sarah, you should have enough math to know that two points defines a line, not a circle.

    1. eh, whatever

      05/27/2023, 5:49 am
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      She doesn’t know how many hands were involved.

  22. Bryy

    05/27/2023, 2:42 am
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    A little concerned Joyce doesn’t consider her mom a threat.

    1. Mark

      05/27/2023, 8:07 am
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      Sometimes you withdraw from a threat; sometimes you step forward, to put it within your grasp.

  23. Andrews

    05/27/2023, 2:58 am
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    Last panel Sarah is most adorable Sarah face ever (though based on some other comments, I may be interpreting it differently to others!)

  24. Dr. T

    05/27/2023, 3:34 am
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    No Sarah! Let Joyce drop that hammer herself.

  25. yarrr

    05/27/2023, 4:25 am
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    This will be fine. “Boss intro music starts playing ‘

    1. NGPZ

      05/27/2023, 5:46 pm
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      *plays “Conflicted” from Binding of Isaac Soundtrack*

  26. AGV

    05/27/2023, 4:39 am
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    Go get her, Joyce

  27. Bogeywoman

    05/27/2023, 4:54 am
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    I hope Joyce reaches a point and bursts out with this exact language (possibly when Carol finds out Joe is Jewish and says something about Joyce heading hell-wards).

  28. Juanoku

    05/27/2023, 4:57 am
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    Real subtle, huh

  29. Chasey

    05/27/2023, 5:00 am
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    Oof. I’m guessing Carol sees everyone’s left and drops her nice façade.

    1. Needfuldoer

      05/27/2023, 5:40 am
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      I think she’ll keep love-bombing, but she’ll stir in some passive-aggressive comments that leave Joyce conflicted.

  30. Zaxares

    05/27/2023, 5:33 am
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    This is why I love Sarah. Sure, she gives you grief, but she will STAND BY YOU if you need her to.

    1. milu

      05/27/2023, 10:36 am
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      This is why i love Sarah. Sure she stands by you if you need her to, but she will GIVE YOU GRIEF

  31. ValdVin

    05/27/2023, 5:43 am
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    Aww, Sarah really is the big sister Joyce never had.

    1. milu

      05/27/2023, 10:37 am
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      To the best of her knowledge anyhow

  32. Hof1991

    05/27/2023, 8:44 am
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    Prediction. Carol has a new main squeeze. Evangelicals can divorce if “unevenly yoked “. If your spouse isn’t Christian enough for you.

    Carol is way too happy for being newly divorced.

    Joyce can be on board or become another one of her children who isn’t talked about. Doesn’t matter too much to Carol.

    1. Alongcameaspider

      05/27/2023, 11:34 am
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      I don’t know, something tells me that she’s not going to give up her only (that she’s aware of/willing to consider one) daughter that easily

  33. JBento

    05/27/2023, 10:12 am
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    So, like, completely unrelated, but I saw a game where one of the characters is a gay man that goes by she/her pronouns. Is this something that actually happens in real life?

    1. milu

      05/27/2023, 10:44 am
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      In some gay male circles female pronouns are used playfully for fem/effeminate men. I’m not that familiar with the gay scene but i don’t find it surprising?

      1. JBento

        05/27/2023, 11:28 am
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        Hmm, the character in question doesn’t strike me as effeminate so far, but could be that. The narration also uses those pronouns to refer to her. ?

    2. Yumi

      05/27/2023, 12:00 pm
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      As a general stance, while using the wrong pronouns for someone may be considered misgendering them, I think it’s good to remember that pronouns aren’t gender. I’ve never known a gay man who uses she/her, and only she/her, all the time, but it certainly seems possible. I have known cis lesbian women who use he/him pronouns.

    3. Lysbeth

      05/27/2023, 12:45 pm
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      It’s unusual, you might even say rare, but not unheard of. People, cis and trans, play with gender cues and presentation all the time – some more than others though, and personal pronouns are far on the “more” side of the spectrum, but it’s a thing people do nonetheless.

    4. Sam

      05/27/2023, 2:41 pm
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      Well, Drag Queens exist and have often been gay men so, definitely not an unheard of thing, just not typical. In languages where I is different for each gender, it sometimes happens that a girl uses the male one as well. So I would say it is uncommon enough you won’t encounter it a lot, but it will crop up on occasions. Sometimes they just like it, sometimes it is to make a point, sometimes they are experimenting.

      I have known a transperson who said they were both trans and gay because that was the easiest way to explain their current position, though logically, the way it worked out, they would be straight, but they hadn’t transistioned, so still presented as cisgender at the time. But explaining all that is a lot of work.

    5. JBento

      05/27/2023, 7:06 pm
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      Thank you, everyone, for your input.

  34. Adept

    05/27/2023, 11:14 am
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    She remains a jerk. “Friendly” ribbing and insults are a thing I’ve never approved of. Not the way she does it, at least.

    1. Alongcameaspider

      05/27/2023, 11:38 am
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      I mean I interpret that comment as more poking fun at herself and her own lack of tact

      1. thejeff

        05/27/2023, 12:53 pm
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        I see it a sincere offer of help, which when turned down, she covered up with a joke to keep up her “I don’t care” facade.

  35. Suet

    05/27/2023, 4:15 pm
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    Joyce still needs someone to help carry the bins, she doesn’t have the strength of an ant.

    1. Furie

      05/27/2023, 5:42 pm
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      Her mom’ll help her carry them to the new home they’re now sharing following THE DIVORCE THAT MUST NOT BE SPOKEN OF over her being pissed that her husband finally putting their kids first.

      1. Furie

        05/28/2023, 9:29 am
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        Huh, I was right.

  36. RassilonTDavros

    05/28/2023, 12:05 am
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    Server clock’s drifting back a bit, it seems.

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